LB's/Dating/Frat Hoes

[Phrozen1ne]

Originally Posted by GOALdigger

Hoes and the glorification of hoes baffles me. Its funny how rappers brag about getting all the hoes. Hoes really don't go after the best men they will get with anyone with a little cash or pay them attention making them easy to obtain and maintain. I think its harder to get attract a classy lady because they are selective and to think one man can satisfy more than one at a time nearly impossible. Because a true one knows her worth and can not share and will not share her man.

just my 22cents.

p.s. I don't know if its just me, but a how is fashion trend. If too many people are wearing it out why would I want to jump in on the trend too? I don't like to have the same thing that everyone down the street has.

We all get someones leftovers. We just rather not know how many people ate from that plate.

[nittanyalum]

Originally Posted by Phrozen1ne

We all get someones leftovers. We just rather not know how many people ate from that plate.

Pardon the crash, but if I were still single, I'd get this stitched on a pillow.

[Phrozen1ne]

Originally Posted by nittanyalum

Pardon the crash, but if I were still single, I'd get this stitched on a pillow.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by nittanyalum

Pardon the crash, but if I were still single, I'd get this stitched on a pillow.

I'm about to use it as my siggy. Phrozen1ne you wouldn't mind would you?

[Phrozen1ne]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I'm about to use it as my siggy. Phrozen1ne you wouldn't mind would you?

Go right ahead. If anyone asks you tell them it was a Phrozen1ne orginal.

[Phrozen1ne]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Someone with 20 sexual partners isn't automatically a "hoe" if most people don't know their past BUT someone with 2 sexual partners can be a "hoe" depending on how it was done and who is talking.

True.

Originally Posted by ladygreek

While I agree with some of what you said, AKAMonet has a point, too. IMO young girls tend to form their opinions about relationships based on what they see at home between their parents. If the father is absent--either physically or emotionally--they get a skewed impression. Then society tells them that sex is the way to get a man. Oh and have a baby by him and you will have him for life.

It doesn't matter the economic or social background of the female, because it happens in middle class and upper class families, too.

And I believe it is the same for the guys. If they did not have a good role model of a relationship from their parents, then they will tend to follow in the same footsteps.

Lastly, I also blame mothers who love their sons and raise their daughters, i.e., raise them to cater to the man in the household whether it be the father or the brother.

Also the women are raising there daughters to be sexy vs. being a beautiful person and being valued for more than the exterior.

And the boys....
When I talked with my 8th grade boys, one of them said that his father doesn't mind him having sex as long as he "straps up" and isn't gay. The look that I gave him is similar to this. I guess that was his father's version of the birds and the bees. Now when he has a child he will be able to pass this info on to his son. How wonderful!

[PrettyBoy]

DSTCHAOS thanks for that and you make sense and I agree with a lot of what you stated. No, I don't expect a woman to tell me how many partners she's had. I usually wait until it comes out in conversation. Time always exposes people. So I just sit back and wait.

ladygreek, my parents weren't even married a year before my sister was born, and then they were married for a little over 4 years before my brother was born and over 7 years before I was born. I'm not sure how old I was before I realized they never did anything without the other, I guess as long as I can remember. Infact, my dad was still in college when my sister was born. My dad always said he puts his family 2nd to Christ and 1st before anything else. I've always seen his actions match his words.

Folks, I guess I was born 100 years too late, because 20 men is way too many. I know that's pretty much the norm in todays time, but in my eyes it's unacceptable, and if I found out that she slept with that many men, I'd have to let her go.

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

DSTCHAOS thanks for that and you make sense and I agree with a lot of what you stated. No, I don't expect a woman to tell me how many partners she's had. I usually wait until it comes out in conversation. Time always exposes people. So I just sit back and wait.

ladygreek, my parents weren't even married a year before my sister was born, and then they were married for a little over 4 years before my brother was born and over 7 years before I was born. I'm not sure how old I was before I realized they never did anything without the other, I guess as long as I can remember. Infact, my dad was still in college when my sister was born. My dad always said he puts his family 2nd to Christ and 1st before anything else. I've always seen his actions match his words.

Folks, I guess I was born 100 years too late, because 20 men is way too many. I know that's pretty much the norm in todays time, but in my eyes it's unacceptable, and if I found out that she slept with that many men, I'd have to let her go.

As I said, I am certainly not implying angthing about your parents, but many times children do not see the whole picture. What I am trying to point out is that you said you didn't get my statement. But trust many do.

And I am really glad that you are a one woman man.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

DSTCHAOS thanks for that and you make sense and I agree with a lot of what you stated. No, I don't expect a woman to tell me how many partners she's had. I usually wait until it comes out in conversation. Time always exposes people. So I just sit back and wait.

Don't hold your breath. Seriously. You may never know how many partners your future wife had. Whether it was 1 or 10. Hope that doesn't keep you from the alter.

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Folks, I guess I was born 100 years too late, because 20 men is way too many. I know that's pretty much the norm in todays time, but in my eyes it's unacceptable, and if I found out that she slept with that many men, I'd have to let her go.

You aren't 100 years too late. You're just not separating preference from necessity. Also, depending on where you lived 100 years ago, women and men were both being sexually loose.

You're stuck on numbers and we're not talking about numbers. We're talking about principle. Principle says that you don't dictate what's too much for the women you meet and you won't necessarily know enough about their past to judge her. Again, this principle applies whether she's been with 1 man or 20 men.

And you're also begging for a woman to lie to you. If a woman isn't so judgmental or inquisitive about your past (most women aren't, as far as I'm concerned), don't act as if she owes you her life story as if you hold the key to all that is good and Holy.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen1ne

Go right ahead. If anyone asks you tell them it was a Phrozen1ne orginal.

Check out my siggy. Thanks man.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen1ne

We all get someones leftovers. We just rather not know how many people ate from that plate.

Exactly. I couldn't agree more.