Would you rather...

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by Zeta13Girl

Here's another question for those of you that went through informal rush tho... depending on how your campus does it the sorority is allowed to extend you a bid after the first rush event but in some cases if the sorority is having a hard time deciding on you they will invite you back for another night of rush events.

Would you attend the second night or no? And if you attended and saw the girls that attended the night before you there as new members (because they had already received and accepted their bid) would this turn you off at all.

I probably would attend the 2nd night. Besides, there's no way I'd know they were on the fence about me unless somebody told me.

Knowing my personality, it would probably freak me out if I saw other girls from the 1st night there as NMs because then I'd think they liked me less than everyone else.

[ForeverRoses]

For the first question, when I was in school and I would have said the group that I loved. Now I would like to think I would say the group that loved me.

As for the 2 nights of rush thing, I think I would still go to the second night of rush, but I would start to question it after I found out that some people got bids the first night while others had to come back. I would say the chapter should wait until all the decisions are made and offer all the bids at the same time. Especially since all the women will be in the same NM class- they will talk and figure out that some were chosen right away while others had to wait.