I'm an emotional wreck

OOhsoflyDELTA#9 · #1 12-31-2007, 01:42 AM

Dang Soror Meanie...LMAO...give em a break....let that man be happy his boo is back in his life...you are harsh....lol.....

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

You're 40+ or was that a joke?

Eh...to be honest I don't feel the least bit sorry for you. You're going along with everything she has done. Did you even tell her about herself or lay down some "rules" regarding what you will no longer tolerate?

Now she contacts you on Christmas day to get back together and you're ecstatic. That was a couple of days ago. Save the happiness for when she proves herself consistent.

Stop letting her dictate the goings on in your relationship. You aren't a pawn to be used and discarded at her choosing. Her timing doesn't have be your timing. You shouldn't have been so available to her. As someone previously said, always maintain a life of your own. I suggest exercising more and finding other hobbies. Let her be the one trying to find when you are available.

James · #2 12-31-2007, 01:46 AM

Harsh, but she is right. Damn, girls are so . . . just girls. If it was a girl that posted this mess on here no one would be suggesting to give the boyfriend time, or to wait it out, they would be telling her to kick that baggage to the curb . . maybe after setting it on fire. . .

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Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9

Dang Soror Meanie...LMAO...give em a break....let that man be happy his boo is back in his life...you are harsh....lol.....

Senusret I · #3 12-31-2007, 02:07 AM

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Originally Posted by James

Damn, girls are so . . . just girls.

I know, right? Ugh, barf.

DSTCHAOS · #4 01-01-2008, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by James

Harsh, but she is right. Damn, girls are so . . . just girls. If it was a girl that posted this mess on here no one would be suggesting to give the boyfriend time, or to wait it out, they would be telling her to kick that baggage to the curb . . maybe after setting it on fire. . .

Yep and I don't believe in double standards (99% of the time).

pssst...are you talking about "girls" or "women?" I don't think "girls" (and "boys") should be dating. Too young.