Dropping Out Post-Initiation

[lilly1]

Unfortunately, my big is gone for a semester abroad, and she and I never had the opportunity to really get to know each other, so a conversation like over facebook wouldn't work. We just elected a new council in the past month, but none of those girls are from my city, and I would like to have this talk face to face. I know it would vary most likely between sororities, but would a former counsel member be equally as respectful and confidential?