To drop or not to drop....

[lillady85]

Before.
At least, it would be nice if they had done it before. I spent a lot on a gift for my then bf of two years and he broke up with me Christmas day.
Not before or after, but the same day.

Now, if you're doing it? You could be nice and give the present but what's the point? You want to start moving and another reminder of them doesn't help.

[winneythepooh7]

Originally Posted by lillady85

Before.
At least, it would be nice if they had done it before. I spent a lot on a gift for my then bf of two years and he broke up with me Christmas day.
Not before or after, but the same day.

Now, if you're doing it? You could be nice and give the present but what's the point? You want to start moving and another reminder of them doesn't help.

I agree. I've been in situations like that before, myself. I just think it's the right thing to do if you know it's over.