Would you rather...

[PeppyGPhiB]

I'd pick the one I wanted all through rush. QAs are for women that attended the maximum number of preference parties but didn't "match" with a group most likely because they were low enough on the bid list that they didn't make the "first cut"...QAs have not been dropped by a house they'd ultimately go to. I'd stick with the one I wanted for a couple of reasons: first, just because I wasn't at the top of their bid list doesn't mean they didn't want me. They probably loved most/all of the women that came to their preference parties - girls they liked enough for membership. Second, it's likely that most, if not all, of the collegiate members would have no idea if I was a QA or where I fell on the bid list when it all shook out.