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Like Drolefille, I would hope I would never know "for sure", because I think like we read over and over again in the recruitment threads, most people end up where they're supposed to be, regardless.
Since your scenario specifies that I would know that one group "loved" me and one would just "tolerate" me (even if I coveted them, which, frankly, being me, I most likely wouldn't, particularly if I knew I was last on their list), I'd want to be where I knew I was wanted. Like can grow into love. Feeling inadequate doesn't go away.
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