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I think a lot of times the groups of guys don't give the fraternities any choice other than to feign interest, because they're so far up each others' asses and to the left. The fraternities don't know if these are just dorm friendships or guys that have been BFFs since they were 3. So they kind of have to be nice if they like any one of the guys and then worry about the fallout later.
This is one of the nice things about women's formal rush - even if groups of friends are rushing at the same time, most likely they'll get separated when the rho chi groups are created. It sucks to really like a rushee and not be able to get a word in edgewise because her obnoxious friend/roommate is stuck to her side like flypaper and won't shut up.
If I were this RA, I would encourage the residents on my floor to go through rush as individuals instead of sticking together so much. This behavior not only results in some people having hurt feelings from not getting bids at all, but guys taking bids just because their roomie/friend is pledging there.
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