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Old 11-26-2007, 07:21 PM
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Who is telling? The significant other of the friend?
Why are they telling? Hmmmm.
If confronted, I would be honest. Nothing happened and you didn't want to ruin your friendship because your friendship means a lot to you.
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:27 PM
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Who is telling? The significant other of the friend?
Why are they telling? Hmmmm.
If confronted, I would be honest. Nothing happened and you didn't want to ruin your friendship because your friendship means a lot to you.
no...if your friend ever confronted you....sorry if that wasn't clear...
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:33 PM
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What would your friend confront you with? His GF told him she had hit on you and that you didn't do anything? Why would you be in trouble? He should be giving you a medal.

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Old 11-26-2007, 07:56 PM
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What would your friend confront you with? His GF told him she had hit on you and that you didn't do anything? Why would you be in trouble? He should be giving you a medal.
James...confronted because someone else told your friend that thier s.o made a pass and had implicated you and since you are supposed to be a good friend, your friend wonders why he had to hear it from someone else and not you.
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Old 11-26-2007, 08:04 PM
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I would probably reply that I just thought she was being flirty and kidding. And so didn't think anything of it.

And hey, it happened to me so wouldn't i know better than random ass that tried to cause problems?

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James...confronted because someone else told your friend that thier s.o made a pass and had implicated you and since you are supposed to be a good friend, your friend wonders why he had to hear it from someone else and not you.
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Old 11-26-2007, 08:19 PM
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I would probably reply that I just thought she was being flirty and kidding. And so didn't think anything of it.

And hey, it happened to me so wouldn't i know better than random ass that tried to cause problems?
well u know what happens when a story is passed along enough times...heheh
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Old 11-26-2007, 08:37 PM
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Well i would never tell my friends that such and such's GF made a pass at me.

But generally I won't tell even my best friends much about my private life involving women.

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well u know what happens when a story is passed along enough times...heheh
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:49 PM
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no...if your friend ever confronted you....sorry if that wasn't clear...
I was following you. I was questioning why the sig. other was telling your friend? It's almost like they are trying to rub it in.

And congrats to you for restraining yourself.


On the other hand, if Significant Other hit on you more than once, I would definitely have a heart-to-heart with BFF
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:54 PM
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I was following you. I was questioning why the sig. other was telling your friend? It's almost like they are trying to rub it in.

And congrats to you for restraining yourself.


On the other hand, if Significant Other hit on you more than once, I would definitely have a heart-to-heart with BFF
well no...the s.o. isn't the factor....the factor here is you...you know that the s.o. made a pass at you and what YOU would do about...she ins't saying anything....hehe
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