To Tell or not to tell
 

This kinda goes back to a topic Dionysus posted a while back....(just that it doesn't invole a circle of friends!) but here goes:

What would you do if you ever found yourself in a situation where your friend's significant other hit on you? What would you do at that moment?

Would you tell your friend or keep it to yourself?

If you chose to tell, how would you go about doing it?

Is there any time where sometimes not telling is the best option?


Worse...hehehe...has there ever been a time this has happened and you went with the flow and what were the repercussions?

You don't mention it. Ever.

Don't tell, don't think about it. Poof, it's gone, it never happened

So then if you are ever confronted....how do you explain as to why you never said anything?

Who is telling? The significant other of the friend?
Why are they telling? Hmmmm.
If confronted, I would be honest. Nothing happened and you didn't want to ruin your friendship because your friendship means a lot to you.

no...if your friend ever confronted you....sorry if that wasn't clear...

What would your friend confront you with? His GF told him she had hit on you and that you didn't do anything? Why would you be in trouble? He should be giving you a medal.

I was following you. I was questioning why the sig. other was telling your friend? It's almost like they are trying to rub it in.

And congrats to you for restraining yourself.


On the other hand, if Significant Other hit on you more than once, I would definitely have a heart-to-heart with BFF

well no...the s.o. isn't the factor....the factor here is you...you know that the s.o. made a pass at you and what YOU would do about...she ins't saying anything....hehe

James...confronted because someone else told your friend that thier s.o made a pass and had implicated you and since you are supposed to be a good friend, your friend wonders why he had to hear it from someone else and not you.

I would probably reply that I just thought she was being flirty and kidding. And so didn't think anything of it.

And hey, it happened to me so wouldn't i know better than random ass that tried to cause problems?

well u know what happens when a story is passed along enough times...heheh

Well i would never tell my friends that such and such's GF made a pass at me.

But generally I won't tell even my best friends much about my private life involving women.

Unless you've known your friend 10x longer than they've known their SO, NO WAY should you tell them, and even then, only if it happens more than once, and is extremely serious.

My mom's sister's husband confessed to her that he'd been cheating, and my mom told her sister, and her sister didn't believe her for YEARS. Of course, when my aunt finally caught up with the rest of the world and found out, she felt like a pretty big ass.

most people aren't satisfied unless evidence falls flat in thier lap...

and then there is Cheaters.