I'd try to be natural. Don't be that annoying girl whom they know is only trying to hang with them because she's rushing. If they invite you to hang out, by all means go. But don't force it by inviting yourself to hang out all the time. Also understand that having good friends in a sorority doesn't guarantee you a bid there. You could hang out with them all year long until fall recruitment, and get droppd by them after day one. So don't think that just because you hang out with them all the time, that you'll automatically get a bid there next fall.
If rush is competitive, be sure that you have recommendations to as many of the sororities as possible. Also, since you are a jr at a competitive rush, I'd make sure to go into recruitment with an open mind. Be open to considering all the sororities, and don't focus too much on just House A or B. Think about it, those are 2 out of an entire sorority community and you don't want to be so focused on those 2 that you don't give the others a shot.
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