Hazing

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by amanda6035

I think i understand what BlueNYC is saying though....If you're going to snitch on someone, why would you still want to bully your way into the organization? If someone attempted to haze me, I'd snitch the crap out of them - but then I'd walk away. I wouldnt want to be in an organization that condones hazing. But from the sounds of it, this person snitched and then managed to be initiated anyway, even though nobody liked him. I would have been different if he snitched, and got respected and they still wanted him to Initiate. Of course - that's not the impression I got from the story. I got the impression that this person bullied their way into being initiated.

It's one thing to drop dime (snitch) for hazing, but to do it when you didn't even get a letter of acceptance, that's another thing and unacceptable. He's not a brother.

[Senusret I]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

It's one thing to drop dime (snitch) for hazing, but to do it when you didn't even get a letter of acceptance, that's another thing and unacceptable. He's not a brother.

That's the chapter's dumbness for pledging/hazing people prior to the vote. Selectivity apparently is a lost art. Stupid chapters allow people to bogart their way in.

Unless your organization has an administrative override (add-on) policy, the most solemn responsibility of chapters remains the selection of members. You can't have the OLD process under the NEW rules.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

That's the chapter's dumbness for pledging/hazing people prior to the vote. Selectivity apparently is a lost art. Stupid chapters allow people to bogart their way in.

Unless your organization has an administrative override (add-on) policy, the most solemn responsibility of chapters remains the selection of members. You can't have the OLD process under the NEW rules.

He was never selected.

[Senusret I]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

He was never selected.

Was he pledged, hazed, pre-pledged, or in any way contacted inappropriately prior to the vote? If you read what I said, I obviously understood that he was never selected. If he was contacted inappropriately prior to the vote, then of course he will have more footing when it comes to bogarting his was in.

Are we still referring to the dude you all didn't teach any secrets to?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

Was he pledged, hazed, pre-pledged, or in any way contacted inappropriately prior to the vote? If you read what I said, I obviously understood that he was never selected. If he was contacted inappropriately prior to the vote, then of course he will have more footing when it comes to bogarting his was in.

Are we still referring to the dude you all didn't teach any secrets to?

Same guy. I won't comment on rather he was pre-pledged, or hazed, but I will say this, he knew he didn't make the cut from the get go, but he wanted in, so he did what he had to do to attempt to get in. After everything was done and over, he had no respect from not only us, but from every glo on campus. His reason for leaving.

[Senusret I]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I won't comment on rather he was pre-pledged, or hazed

So basically he was.

I refer back to my original statement:
That's the chapter's dumbness for pledging/hazing people prior to the vote.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

So basically he was.

I refer back to my original statement:
That's the chapter's dumbness for pledging/hazing people prior to the vote.

I'll have to PM on that.