Disclaimer to all nosy busybodies: my chapter does not do this anymore, so turning us in will make you look stupid, and there are no other NPC sororities on this campus, so your sorority was not being hurt by this behavior.
For several years when our chapter was in a numbers slump, we had men (generally the big men on campus types, student body president, etc.) of the (then) most popular fraternity on campus dress up in black suits and come to the dorm or apartment of the woman who was invited to preference to escort her to the preference ceremony, which was held at the home of a university official whose wife is an alumna.
Oh, most girls do. I thought it was really sweet -my boyfriend at the time was somewhat of a BMOC (and was in that chapter) so I knew the guys who picked me up, but it was fun as an active member to see how impressed the girls were that we knew those guys and were friends with them. We usually had a bonfire with their chapter a few weeks after bid day and also had a toga party with them.
I thought it was really sweet -my boyfriend at the time was somewhat of a BMOC (and was in that chapter) so I knew the guys who picked me up, but it was fun as an active member to see how impressed the girls were that we knew those guys and were friends with them. 
We usually had a bonfire with their chapter a few weeks after bid day and also had a toga party with them.
Hybrid Mode
