Drop out or be persistent?

[SoCalGirl]

Originally Posted by AlexMack

Troll.

Totally!

Why would someone assume it was okay to bring children simply because she wasn't told she can't?

If any kind of ritual is taking place (pinning/pledging, formal meeting, or initiation) the children should not be there.

If there's parties (exchanges/formals) they should not be there.

If it's a sisterhood event, it's for the sisters, and they should not be there.

Philanthropy events and informal meetings where the children sit in the back of the room and do their homework and don't interupt are the only events that I'd find children acceptable.

Without treading into the Membership Handbooks of any organization...

If the active sisters tell the OP not to bring the kids around and the OP gives them a hard time about it and still brings the kids around (based on the loophole that they didn't say kids were prohibited), who's to say the active sisters have to initiate her if they don't want to?