So is imitation really the sincerest form of flattery?

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Originally Posted by fantASTic

I think you misunderstand. What we wanted to do was something FUN. Like, for example, a simple social or mixer where we could do something fun, hang out, and get to know each other. I have no idea what such a thing may be; I'm not the social chair in my chapter, and that's not my responsibility. But I'm not talking about anything big.

PrettyinPink:

Your recommendation was welcomed! I think we will just have to go with it; if we just can't get a response, maybe that is just a sign that they are not interested. I would like to do something, but I'm not going to [nor can I] force them to show up.

Being the optimist, as another poster alluded to, it could be that there are some internal goings-on in the chapter that precludes them from socializing with you at this particular time that has nothing to do with you. At this juncture, unless you get evidence to the contrary, don't take it personal.

But don't give up either. Try again next semester.