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Old 09-12-2007, 12:36 AM
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that was the most dramatic thread i've ever read in my life. i wish that one with the identical twin in a southern school with the pink frills and stuff kept posting! that was the best thread ever with those cliffhangers. she kept saying "but there was that one thing..."

regarding this thread- chill out! everyone! refer to the thread where people state the stupid/shallow/funny reasons they dropped or kept houses when they rushed. some of them sound pretty shallow and now they're all GCers. I remember being incredibly shallow during recruitment!
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Old 09-12-2007, 09:05 AM
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I've read this whole thread and I have to agree, I think we should lay off LMV. Yes, she said some incredibly shallow things during recruitment, but I can't say that had I gone through formal I might not have been shallow as well. The school I rushed at (and the school I transferred too) had about 13-14 houses when I joined, I wouldn't have been able to remember much, but those "shallow" things (i.e., what the girls looked like). It doesn't make me a bad person, it makes me human. While, yes, I don't think she handeled her thread appropriately being bluntly honest, she has every right to be bluntly honest. We just aren't used to that on GC. We are used to PNM's being "sweet and kind and not rude". The reality check of this, not every PNM is like we are used too.

Critizing her and demanding apologies from her just, as someone pointed out, "adds fuel to the fire". People from GC keep ragging on her, she comes and behaves even more inappropriately, but at this point, we (on GC) aren't behaving to appropriately either. And I'm not calling anyone out by name, I'm saying GC as a whole, because as a whole there are way too many people to name that have behaved badly in recruitment threads.

For me, even though she is a junior transfer, she is still 19-21 (I say that because we don't know how old she was when she started college or when her birthday is). I know I was still pretty immature and stupid at those ages. And I'm everyone took a step back, they would "see" that they too were probably pretty immature and stupid at those ages as well.

I'm sure someone will flame me for this, but whatever.
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Old 09-12-2007, 09:52 AM
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Maybe a solution, and in light of some other rush thread fiascos, GC should recommend only retro rush threads or even just telling the GC community which GLO was pledged without going through the day-by-day experience.
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Old 09-12-2007, 09:55 AM
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Maybe a solution, and in light of some other rush thread fiascos, GC should recommend only retro rush threads or even just telling the GC community which GLO was pledged without going through the day-by-day experience.

Aaack! This R thread addict would have a hard time with this solution!

I can see why you'd suggest it, but I'd seriously have to find a new fix. Then again, I'm Sydney, and I'm a GC R-thread-aholic.
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Old 09-12-2007, 09:59 AM
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Maybe a solution, and in light of some other rush thread fiascos, GC should recommend only retro rush threads or even just telling the GC community which GLO was pledged without going through the day-by-day experience.
Most women manage to tell about their rush experience discreetly and without any consequences. The ones that don't, well....Darwinism is all I have to say
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Old 09-12-2007, 07:47 PM
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Most women manage to tell about their rush experience discreetly and without any consequences. The ones that don't, well....Darwinism is all I have to say
Well, most PNM's are smart enough not to list out the chapters in alphabetical order, complete with obvious identifying details.
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Old 09-18-2007, 05:27 PM
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I'm not from up there, but I just finished reading the whole thread (thank God for those of you who quoted what she deleted) and I just have one question: Which one was Zeta??? PM me if you know, I'm nosey as heck and I just hope she didn't say anything too bad about my sisters up there (not that I'd do or say anything, just curious).
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Old 09-18-2007, 05:31 PM
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I'm not from up there, but I just finished reading the whole thread (thank God for those of you who quoted what she deleted) and I just have one question: Which one was Zeta??? PM me if you know, I'm nosey as heck and I just hope she didn't say anything too bad about my sisters up there (not that I'd do or say anything, just curious).
Zeta does not have a chapter at UIUC.
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Old 09-18-2007, 05:31 PM
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I'm not from up there, but I just finished reading the whole thread (thank God for those of you who quoted what she deleted) and I just have one question: Which one was Zeta??? PM me if you know, I'm nosey as heck and I just hope she didn't say anything too bad about my sisters up there (not that I'd do or say anything, just curious).
She started listing the sororities in alphabetical order, getting half-way through. This part of the post was deleted, but someone did quote her so it remained on the thread.

The GC'ers starting blasting her for her posts and none of us remember her finishing the latter part of the alphabet. Chances are high that she never go to the Zetas. Lucky you.
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