UIUC Rush Story

[IlliniMeg]

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

Also, most women have friends in all sorts of chapters. Off of the top of my head, I could think of women in my pledge class who lived with women from at least five other chapters once they moved out of the house. I can think of women who dated guys in all sorts of fraternities, as well.

I won't pretend there are not tiers, but anyone with an ounce of maturity should be able to get over it, and have a great experience in any group.

**applauds**

Let's get to it!

[UGAalum94]

Isn't time that the people who have the old posts saved can post them without risk to the OP's rush?

Please start posting away! I want read all the descriptions again before, I hope, she comes back and posts the rest!

[xoheatherxo]

Originally Posted by UGAalum94

Isn't time that the people who have the old posts saved can post them without risk to the OP's rush?

Please start posting away! I want read all the descriptions again before, I hope, she comes back and posts the rest!

the first ten house descriptions are still on the first page. she deleted her post, but someone quoted it so its still there!!

is she going to come on and tell us what happened?

[AnatraAmore]

I believe she was going to... Bid Day starts are 1pm and is scheduled to end at 6pm, so if she received a bid, she's probably out with her new sisters!

[UGAalum94]

But other folks have the posts saved as screen shots. I think two different people indicated that they could post them once her rush was over.

So, although I hope she's out celebrating with her new group, I'd like to read the re-cap of the other chapters as soon as anyone who has them is willing to post them.

Thanks!

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Normally, if a U of I PNM does not get a bid, I would be the first one to advise her on how to get her name to the right people for COB opportunities. In this case, however, I am conflicted.

On one hand, I don't think that the OP is mean-spirited, just immature, especially considering that she is a junior. At the same time, elsewhere in this forum, someone just bumped the "stupid reasons for cutting a group" thread.

On the other, the groups likely to do COB are the ones that the OP has already dismissed as not good enough for her. If she didn't give them a fair shot in formal recruitment, I don't know that she would give them a fair shot in COB, and I wouldn't want to facilitate a big waste of time for both her and the groups concerned.

Hopefully she found a place where she is happy, and this is a moot point.

[UGAalum94]

The OP was a quick study based on her behavior here (she acted on what she was told pretty much immediately) and may have ended up matching to a group she liked.