Huge problem with transfering into a new chapter...HELP!!

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by giggle528

im really not going to comment on what AF said, but seriously this is a message board, not a place for people to make rude comments to others. If you wanna do that go someplace where someone actually cares. ..

Maybe you and skylark should become BFF and go start your own flame-free messageboards that's just like GC except everyone there is nice (as long as you're buddy-buddy with the admins) and steal threads from GC without changing the wording, and encourage everyone and their dog to AI. OH, WAIT...

[SydneyK]

Originally Posted by giggle528

this is a message board, not a place for people to make rude comments to others. If you wanna do that go someplace where someone actually cares. ..

Ok, look...

That was a JOKE about the whole space-time continuum thing. That's why my next sentence started with, "But seriously..."

If you can't take that kind of joke, then you're the one who should go someplace where someone actually cares.

Oh, and by the way, it's FRUSTRATED, not fusterated. And I'm not being rude by pointing that out.

[tld221]

Originally Posted by giggle528

im really not going to comment on what AF said, but seriously this is a message board, not a place for people to make rude comments to others. If you wanna do that go someplace where someone actually cares. ..

she gon tell us how to run out sh!t...

anyways,
I am a sophmore, obviously i was just initated last April. My chapter CLEARLY doesnt know all the rules, or processes, nor did my prez let me know when I told her that this process takes time.

so yeah, i was fusterated because this fusteration has just been a build of different situations that have happened! I began to not take my chapter seriously. there was NO sisterhood there. half the time girls wouldnt show up for meetings, go to events, etc. Our school had a panhellnic(sp?) car wash to raise money.

I wanted to go, because you know car washes are fun and I wanted to raise money. All the girls in the other sororities went(there were 2 other sororities). Did any of the ABC girls show up? Only I and another girl, and THATS it. hmm...sounds like great sisterhood to me.

sheesh, if i judged my sorority's sisterhood based on our turnout to certain events... im sorry, you just sound like a loser to me. a grammatically-incorrect drama queen that can't get her story together for a message board. there's no other way to say it. whoops, let me go make rude comments where somewhere cares.

Just little things like that really bothered me, but I didnt switch schools because of the sorority. I switch for other reasons that I wont justify on here.

you do realize that everytime you say that, the reason(s) changes slightly. you were open to telling us why before (something about the school not having your major, which is legitimate to me) but now you're all shady?

p.s. see all the bolded words? if you hit F7, you mightve known that you.can't.spell.

[khlkcca]

1. If you were so unhappy with your old chapter, why did you go through initiation?

2. Why in the world would you call the group you are trying to affiliate with the slutty group? I do not care if that is the rumored image. Do not call girls you want to accept you slutty!

[giggle528]

i dont think they are slutty..thats just what everyone else thinks.


ok you know what? i didnt come here to be freaking attacked by people who i dont even freaking know. I came here to vent, because maybe people here since mainly everyone is greek would understand my situtation, but i clearly was wrong. theres your answer happy?

you all are switching the story, putting words in my mouth, etc. I signed my bid because during rush i felt comfortable with the girls. during new member period, i still felt comfortable, BUT i was dissappointed because we never did anything, being dissappointed in the way they went about things and being comfortable around them as a person is COMPLETELY different. I went through initiation, because originally I was going to transfer to a school closer to home, and I was set on going there. They also had ABC too. at that time I didnt know that sometimes transfers arent accepted, so i figured that I would go through initation and the transfer into the other schools chapter. All the girls of my chapter knew that I was transfering, BUT the day after initation I went to go visit the school, and thats when i found out that I couldnt go there (for certain reasons). If I had known that before hand then I would of DPed for the respect of the group.

So there are your answers...now just leave me alone