I happen to live by the principal that if you get things in the wrong way, what was once meant to bless you will end up cursing you.
As far as everything being a blessing, and based upon the example given, God orchestrates everything true enough but He has also given us free will. I don't think God just spoke into somebody's spirit to go and rob a bank. We are commanded to obey the laws of the land and uhh I don't think they making robbery legal these days lol.
I agree with your entire post.
__________________ I am a woman, I make mistakes. I make them often. God has given me a talent and that's it. ~ Jill Scott