Rush - What to NOT do or say

[Mochababy_989]

HI, Im new and this all has helped me alot. I a "sister" of a member of Zeta Phi Beta and she told me a couple of things to do and not to do.

1. If you want to be a member, the whole campus does not need to know. Tell a member of the org. and leave it alone.
2. DO NOT join a sweetheart group and expect to join the sorority.(Sweetheart group is like a fan club of the Frats)
3. Do your reasearch. Be able to tell the org. about themsleves, and be able to tell them why you want to join.

Thats all I know that seems relevant.

O yea, also, Im not sure if this applies to other people, but I was told just because you know a member doesnt mean the process will be any easier for you.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by Mochababy_989

HI, Im new and this all has helped me alot. I a "sister" of a member of Zeta Phi Beta and she told me a couple of things to do and not to do.

1. If you want to be a member, the whole campus does not need to know. Tell a member of the org. and leave it alone.
2. DO NOT join a sweetheart group and expect to join the sorority.(Sweetheart group is like a fan club of the Frats)
3. Do your reasearch. Be able to tell the org. about themsleves, and be able to tell them why you want to join.

Thats all I know that seems relevant.

O yea, also, Im not sure if this applies to other people, but I was told just because you know a member doesnt mean the process will be any easier for you.

Greekchat is ONLY a place to discuss relevant events in Greek Lettered Organizations.

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What you need to know can be done by "Private Messaging" or PMing someone with the organization of your interest.

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[h.spectacular]

I don't know if anyone mentioned this, but is there certain clothing choices that we should wear when visiting houses?

this is helping me so so much! Thanks!

[AChiOhSnap]

Originally Posted by h.spectacular

I don't know if anyone mentioned this, but is there certain clothing choices that we should wear when visiting houses?

this is helping me so so much! Thanks!

Browse around the forums, there's no way anyone on here can give you an answer to that vague of a question without knowing your school/region of the country/Greek system, etc. There are plenty of threads on the Recruitment forums that have covered what PNMs from all kinds of different schools should wear for recruitment.

[ΑΓΔSquirrel10]

Originally Posted by h.spectacular

I don't know if anyone mentioned this, but is there certain clothing choices that we should wear when visiting houses?

this is helping me so so much! Thanks!

Contact your Greek Life Office. My school's Panhellenic Recruitment info booklet tells you exactly what is acceptable for each night (and has pictures of different outfits also).