Can I get an honest answer?

[Ilaria Ame]

pinktulips, would you happen to go to nicholls state university? cause i'm an RA there, and one of my residents is a FANTASTIC black girl who is on the chunky side. she expressed wanting to rush NPC but didn't know if she'd fit in. i'll tell you the same thing i told her (if ya'll aren't one and the same!)...go where you'll be comfortable. if you think you'd fit in better (personality-wise) with NPC, just rush, see what happens. if you're not comfortable, drop. then you'll know. i can't speak for everyone, but i personally wouldn't hold that against a girl seeking membership. as long as you didn't accept a bid and THEN drop.

[pinktulips]

Originally Posted by Ilaria Ame

pinktulips, would you happen to go to nicholls state university? cause i'm an RA there, and one of my residents is a FANTASTIC black girl who is on the chunky side. she expressed wanting to rush NPC but didn't know if she'd fit in. i'll tell you the same thing i told her (if ya'll aren't one and the same!)...go where you'll be comfortable. if you think you'd fit in better (personality-wise) with NPC, just rush, see what happens. if you're not comfortable, drop. then you'll know. i can't speak for everyone, but i personally wouldn't hold that against a girl seeking membership. as long as you didn't accept a bid and THEN drop.

No, I don't, but thanks for the advice.