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Old 07-10-2007, 04:42 AM
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Groom's cakes

I am not much of a white cake lover, so I am sooo happy to have a slice of a chocolate groom's cake instead.
I've never seen one like the "Steel Magnolia" armadillo (although I do love me some red velvet cake!) but I have seen some shaped like fraternity badges, or with a hunting, golf or sports motif.
My (ex) husband's was German chocolate, and very, very good. Our wedding cake was chocolate, but it had the traditional white icing (which I think is kinda tasteless).
I've reached a point where I am much more impressed by a cake which is moist and tasty than one that is a bizillion tiers high.
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Old 07-10-2007, 10:09 AM
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Groom's cakes are fun. We don't really do them up here in Pittsburgh. Probably because with the cookie table, there's already enough sugar. I've been to a wedding with a HUGE cookie table, a chocolate fountain, and cake. that's a recipe for a belly ache!
Around here, groom's cakes are for the rehearsal dinner, never for the reception.

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I am not much of a white cake lover, so I am sooo happy to have a slice of a chocolate groom's cake instead.
I don't like chocolate cake, but my mother was adament that the grooms cake, by tradition, had to be chocolate. I remember well when we were meeting with the caterer:

"The groom's cake has to be chocolate."
"But I don't like chocolate cake."
"But it has to be chocolate."
"But I don't like chocolate cake."
"But it has to be chocolate."
"But it's a groom's cake. I'm the groom, and I don't like chocolate cake."

Finally, the caterer mediated, asking me some very specific questions about what I don't like about chocolate cake and about different kinds of chocolate cake and he came up with a chocolate suggestion that was acceptable to everyone.

And I did like it.

As for rental cakes: beyond tacky.
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Old 07-10-2007, 10:44 AM
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I think the bride and groom should do what ever they want on their wedding day and to hell with who ever might think it's tacky.
Agreed!

I don't think I would do a foam cake, but I am sooooo far from getting married who knows what I would do.
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Old 07-10-2007, 10:46 AM
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Around here, groom's cakes are for the rehearsal dinner, never for the reception.
The weddings I've attended have always had the groom's cake at the reception & I've seen some really interesting ones. Puerto Rico's flag, footballs, dogs, golf bags, cowboy hats, etc. Its mostly for show during the reception, usually only the wedding party takes a piece of the groom's cake & thats after everything has wound down.

I think the fake cakes are certainly pretty, but as a traditionalist, I wouldn't buy one.
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Old 07-10-2007, 11:03 AM
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Have you seen the tiny individual wedding cakes? I think that is cute (but expensive, I'm sure).
I need some clever person to post a picture from Martha Stewart or the like.
My home computer network is named luddite for a reason!
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Old 07-10-2007, 11:05 AM
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Is this what you're talking about?

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Old 07-10-2007, 11:09 AM
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Have you seen the tiny individual wedding cakes? I think that is cute (but expensive, I'm sure).
I need some clever person to post a picture from Martha Stewart or the like.
My home computer network is named luddite for a reason!
I've always liked that idea. Here are some examples:



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Old 07-10-2007, 11:23 AM
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I wouldn't say this is a "new" idea - I've been hearing about it for years. Though it usually was the bride and groom having a real top and bottom tier and the bakery used styrofoam for the other layers - not renting a cake from another place.

And the Ace of Cakes designs aren't new either. I got married in 05 so was looking at stuff in 04 (and earlier b/c I'm obsessive like that) and those bright colors, dots, stripes, etc have all been popular for some time now.

Our cake was included in the pp charge at the location - most NYC area locations do that. Since we knew the bakery they used and really liked their product, it worked out perfectly and was completely affordable.

Funny someone said something about wedding cake only being white. Mine was pale yellow with white swirls on it. My southern Chi O sister came up to me early in the reception and said, "Have you seen your cake?" I said, "No, why? What's wrong?" She said, "It's yellow." I said, "OH! It's supposed to be!!!!" I thought it was funny she was so concerned!
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Old 07-10-2007, 11:30 AM
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I've always liked that idea. Here are some examples:

I LOVVVVE these ^^^!
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Old 07-10-2007, 05:21 PM
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Mini Wedding Cakes

I found the molds - silicone mini tiered cake pan - for $29.95 at www.bakerscatalogue.com -makes four little 3-tiered cakes.
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Old 07-11-2007, 12:11 AM
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I LOVVVVE these ^^^!

Those are sooooooo cute! I love it!
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