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thats cool, i guess i might not have "gotten it" exactly b/c ive never been in one but i def. see what your saying. its a good concept and i like the idea. i personally do not have biological brothers or sisters but i do have a few very very close friends which i consider my brothers ...for life and i'd hope the lifetime after this lol. i understand now a fraternity does not exist to to provide crazy drunken parties with girls running around like a girls gone wild commericial (altho thats the image the fraternities ive been to give) but rather people who you can look to, to always be there no matter what the occasion, purpose, or cause - just like a TRUE brother would. I also get that sorority girls aren't snooty in the sense that they'd say something like "i'd never date a g.d.i. I only date fraternity guys (b/c of the fact they are in a fraternity)" which is ANOTHER impression i got from the fraternities i've rushed. they told me "all the sorority chicks dig us fraternity guys b/c here's where the alchohol and partying's at." well, now i know sorority girls date GUYS not letters.

i still don't think i'm going to join one simply b/c my future to be brothers have already lied to me...by telling me crazy almost rediculous stories about girls and that being in a fraternity will get girls to be all on me. then they invite me to a stripper party...and im like whoa, ya'll need strippers? didn't you say the sorority girls were like that?