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Originally Posted by ThetaLove
Thanks everyone for the replies. My most serious relationship ended recently. Of course it hurts like hell. We both agreed to keep in touch evenutally (not too soon of course) and for me to take care of our dog on weekends when he goes away for training. And if he goes overseas. It was a mature breakup... I'm so glad for that. I can breathe much easier now. I know I have a lot of thinking to do about what I want for my future.
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So, it sounds like he is being told some things by some people... So, he believes he needs to cut the ties because he does not want to be hurt if you change your mind about your "commitment" to him. Really, I don't know how you get a military man to commit to the kind of relationship you desire.
But the reality is, the military owns him and will do as "they" please.
What do for yourself? Porkfriedrice has good ideas. Breathe easier like you want and think about what you want to do and your future.
Immediately, I would decide what kind of contact you want with him. Do not let him be the deciding factor on the kind of interaction you want. I would only keep in contact with him after you have forgiven yourself to showing someone else your vunerabilities. Relationships are baring your naked soul of yourself. That is why you must be careful who you show it to.
PM me if you would like. You can take what I say or leave it. Just trying to help. Take care of yourself.
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