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Originally Posted by Educatingblue
I was thinking the same thing. I know a lot of people in the area that I'm in are all about putting on a good "front."
My husband and I have been married almost 2 years and several of our friends have gone out and bought "McMansions" and have raging debt, no savings and still lavishly spending. It's amazing the people who question our decision to wait and get an affordable starter home and live within our means.
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This reminds me of The Millionaire Next Door and the discussion in it about the difference between people with actual wealth and people that just have a high income. The authors make a distinction between Under Accumulators of Wealth (UAWs) and Prodigious Accumulators of Wealth (PAWs). Most of the millionaire households that they profiled did not have the extravagant lifestyles that most people would assume. This finding is backed up by surveys indicating how little these millionaire households have spent on such things as cars, watches, suits, and other luxury products/services. Most importantly, the book gives a list of reasons for why these people managed to accumulate so much wealth (the top one being that "They live below their means"). The authors make a distinction between the 'Balance Sheet Affluent' (those with actual wealth, or high net-worth) and the 'Income Affluent' (those with a high income, but little actual wealth, or low net-worth).
Really an excellent book.
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