Competing for the opposite sex. What would you do?

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[quote=PrettyBoy;1457207]This is kind of long, but try and answer all of the questions if you can. These questions are for the women and men.

1. If you met a man/woman and you knew he/she was talking to another man/woman, but not seriously involved yet, they were just dating and talking. Now, you really found this person very attractive and you loved this person's personality. Would you try and steal him/her away by competing with the other person, or would you just not get involved knowing he/she is seeing someone else?

In this case it is better just to stay out of the way of the relationship...if you get involved then you get caught up in someone else's mess. Also, by "competing" you are setting yourself up to get hurt, played, etc..why go through all that?

2. Lets say you met a man/woman and he/she was in a relationship with someone else. You just happened to work with this person and you two always would go to lunch together. Now, remember you are really attracted to this person. Would you try and steal him/her or would you keep it on a friendship level?

This one may seem tempting...but from what I've seen work and play NEVER mix.

3. Last question. If your fraternity brother or sorority sister or friend's relationship didn't work, and you always thought he/she was very attractive, and that person started to like you. Would you go ahead and get involved with him/her knowing you're friend sorority sister or fraternity brother still had feelings for him/her or would you keep your distance?

We all know that this one is a definite NO-NO. You should have more respect for your org than to put a man/woman before that bond...but the sad thing is that it happens (and even between REAL family members!!). Sad...but true...