Anti-rape condom? - Page 5

tld221 · #61 05-16-2007, 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

What?? How can a woman have an orgasm from getting raped? Where did you get this info from? There's no way a rapist perverted creep could give me an orgasm.

Then again my x boyfriend couldn't either.

good freaking lord.

:smh: orgasm is an involuntary occurence. it will happen whether the arousal is on purpose or by accident, for pleasure or for someone else's, with your consent or without.

and there lies another portion of the emotional abuse that results from rape: a woman will wonder how she enjoyed something that was wrong and against her will, and therefore blaming herself or downplaying the severity of what actually happened by saying "well i liked it so... maybe it wasnt wrong? i guess i shouldnt report it then :shrugs:"

Drolefille · #62 05-16-2007, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

What?? How can a woman have an orgasm from getting raped? Where did you get this info from? There's no way a rapist perverted creep could give me an orgasm.

Then again my x boyfriend couldn't either.

Orgasmed when raped in an abusive relationship
Rape Myths
Wiki on Rape
Can a person orgasm during rape?

I'm getting my Master's in Counseling and I have a degree in Psychology, they teach us about this stuff. You should educate yourself. The Wiki article gives the most info on Rape in general.

Drolefille · #63 05-16-2007, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221

good freaking lord.

:smh: orgasm is an involuntary occurence. it will happen whether the arousal is on purpose or by accident, for pleasure or for someone else's, with your consent or without.

and there lies another portion of the emotional abuse that results from rape: a woman will wonder how she enjoyed something that was wrong and against her will, and therefore blaming herself or downplaying the severity of what actually happened by saying "well i liked it so... maybe it wasnt wrong? i guess i shouldnt report it then :shrugs:"

What do they teach in schools these days? Hell, my first day of college they had a rape seminar that everyone was encouraged to go to ( and bribed the freshmen with housing preference for the next year).

cheerfulgreek · #64 05-16-2007, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille

Orgasmed when raped in an abusive relationship
Rape Myths
Wiki on Rape
Can a person orgasm during rape?

I'm getting my Master's in Counseling and I have a degree in Psychology, they teach us about this stuff. You should educate yourself. The Wiki article gives the most info on Rape in general.

Thanks. I didn't know.

tld221 · #65 05-16-2007, 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille

What do they teach in schools these days? Hell, my first day of college they had a rape seminar that everyone was encouraged to go to ( and bribed the freshmen with housing preference for the next year).

for realz. ive sat in on so many rape/sexual assault, alcohol and other drug abuse, and LGBT seminars in college that i forget that some of this isn't common knowledge to people.

i think schools are teaching stuff, just that ppl like CG arent listening. theyre sitting in the back with their iPod on and not giving a crap.

PrettyBoy · #66 05-16-2007, 11:24 PM

This is crazy but I'll post it. I like this new device. I think it should take it completely off though. If a low down dog pervert rapist is that sick to misuse what he has to take advantage of a woman, then he shouldn't have one at all.

cheerfulgreek · #67 05-16-2007, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

This is crazy but I'll post it. I like this new device. I think it should take it completely off though. If a low down dog pervert rapist is that sick to misuse what he has to take advantage of a woman, then he shouldn't have one at all.

That's a little extreme.

Drolefille · #68 05-16-2007, 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

This is crazy but I'll post it. I like this new device. I think it should take it completely off though. If a low down dog pervert rapist is that sick to misuse what he has to take advantage of a woman, then he shouldn't have one at all.

While in theory I agree, in reality it doesn't work like that at all.

PrettyBoy · #69 05-16-2007, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille

While in theory I agree, in reality it doesn't work like that at all.

I know, and that's too bad. The justice system is designed to protect the criminal. Why? I wish I knew.

cheerfulgreek · #70 05-16-2007, 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I know, and that's too bad. The justice system is designed to protect the criminal. Why? I wish I knew.

I don't think it is. I think the only way a rapist is getting off is if he's a rich celebrity and has enough money to hire a high powered attorney. Then maybe.

PrettyBoy · #71 05-16-2007, 11:50 PM

I disagree. Anytime a thief/rapist or whatever can break into someone's house, see a gun and then turn to run only to get shot in the back and then have the person who pulled the trigger sent to prison for shooting a stranger for breaking into his/her home. If that's not protecting the criminal then I don't know what is.

My parents live next door to a judge. I hear all kinds of crazy scenarios that don't make sense at all.

Dionysus · #72 05-16-2007, 11:51 PM

This thread is turning into a train wreck.

AlexMack · #73 05-16-2007, 11:51 PM

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

I don't think it is. I think the only way a rapist is getting off is if he's a rich celebrity and has enough money to hire a high powered attorney. Then maybe.

Unfortunately rapists get off (pun unintended) a lot because so much of a rape case is circumstancial unless there is indisputable DNA evidence. Normally it'll be a his word vs. her word case. For this reason, a lot of rapes and sexual assaults do go unreported. I'm sure that a thread asking people on GC who's been raped and/or sexually assaulted and not reported it would garner quite a few responses.

PrettyBoy · #74 05-16-2007, 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by centaur532

Unfortunately rapists get off (pun unintended) a lot because so much of a rape case is circumstancial unless there is indisputable DNA evidence. Normally it'll be a his word vs. her word case. For this reason, a lot of rapes and sexual assaults do go unreported. I'm sure that a thread asking people on GC who's been raped and/or sexually assaulted and not reported it would garner quite a few responses.

My question is this? If there is enough evidence DNA and all to convict him, then why should it be his word against hers? It shouldn't. I don't even think he should get a trial at all. Just send him to prison.

tld221 · #75 05-16-2007, 11:58 PM

what is the sentence for being convicted on rape charges? how many years does it get?

i know there are quite a few jobs/careers you wont be able to pursue with that on your record, but if said rapist is found guilty (which i take it to be not so much), are those his only consequences: jail time, being denied certain jobs, and being on a sex offender registry?

and what happens if a woman loses a trial, in that she lied about the rape (and that it never happened, cause we know cases like this do happen). is there a consequence for her, aside from looking like an ass? is she just charged with purgery (sp)?