Frustrations with Rec's

[irishpipes]

Originally Posted by SWTXBelle

they will forward your information to the GLOs on your campus, and they will then handle the recommendaton process.
Once you register with your college Panhellenic, your information will be shared with the GLOs and I would be very surprised if they did not seek recommendations for you. Having said that, I must say that you are taking the correct approach - do not count on it, but pursue getting your own recs. Continue to network with your mom's friends, teachers, etc.
HTH - best of luck.

Just want to emphasize the part about not counting on the GLOs to get recs for you. I would never, ever count on that, especially if you are going to school where recs are essential.

Also, as a public service, please change your font color!!!

[St3ph888]

Right I'm not counting on the Organizations at my school to get them, In my OP I thought I mentioned that I had tried networking through my family parents friends etc. and that I was going to the Panhellenic Alumnae to see if they could point me in the right direction. Greek Life isn't super competitive at my school, nor is the greek system too large. I'm from Chicago, so I don't know what kind of things the Panhellenic Alumnae put on in my area, but I haven't heard of anything.. plus I'm going to be a sophomore. I can't remember if I said I had depledged in my prior e-mail.

The question is more, if I do send them an e-mail what should I say? I don't want to come off in a bad way, I'm just honestly looking for help to find some rec's, I'm completely understanding that I need to do the footwork, but currently I've exhausted all options, thats why I feel I need to branch out in order to get Rec's.

I think that got all the questions that people had asked of me.. If I missed something let me know!

[PenguinTrax]

http://www.geocities.com/chicagoalumnaepanhellenic/

You can contact them through their site.

Nice of them to credit me on their Sorority Life FAQ.

[aopirose]

Originally Posted by PenguinTrax

Nice of them to credit me on their Sorority Life FAQ.

No joke.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by irishpipes

Also, as a public service, please change your font color!!!

What's wrong w/ her font color? It's a nice medium blue on my screen.

[aopirose]

Originally Posted by 33girl

What's wrong w/ her font color? It's a nice medium blue on my screen.

It was another color.

Originally Posted by St3ph888

I'm contemplating re-sending an e-mail to the Alumnae Panhellenic but I'm worried that Perhaps I didn't receive a response because my e-mail was poorly worded or something. Does anyone have advice on what I should say etc? And if I still don't receive a response, then where do I go, and what actions do I take?

Try contacting some of the area alumnae chapters directly. If ther are multiple chapters for one organization in your area, just contact one. State what you need and offer to meet the potential writer for a chat or a phone conversation. As others have pointed out, May/June is a time for officer transition and sometimes things get inadvertantly lost in the shuffle.

[irishpipes]

Originally Posted by 33girl

What's wrong w/ her font color? It's a nice medium blue on my screen.

It was turquoise/aqua before - pretty but very difficult to read.

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Originally Posted by irishpipes

Just want to emphasize the part about not counting on the GLOs to get recs for you. I would never, ever count on that, especially if you are going to school where recs are essential.

Agreed. Especially since you said you will be a sophmore.