Why you didn't make it into a sorority.

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

Would it be considered rude for the woman to tactfully say something like "This seems like a great house, but I really don't feel like I fit in here."? Otherwise, if she's being blatantly rude so as to not get invited back, other houses (that she does want) are going to hear about it.

No PNM ever thinks that unless they think the house is not good enough for them. So it would be a pretty transparent remark.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

No PNM ever thinks that unless they think the house is not good enough for them. So it would be a pretty transparent remark.

I really don't think it means "you're not good enough for me"

I know I didn't fit in to several houses on my campus. I really only had two houses out of five that I would have considered a bid from after recruitment. I dropped the other ones because I didn't fit there. But I didn't think so highly of myself that they weren't good enough for me. I just knew I wouldn't be happy there and why accept a bid someplace you don't want to be? Why be sisters with people you don't seem to like?