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04-11-2007, 02:13 PM
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I am part of a HP community in lj.
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HP? What's HP?
And my husband wouldn't be particularly thrilled if I went out for drinks with my ex, but he'd have to get over it. On the flip side, he's had one ex, and she lives in Mexico, so I don't have to worry about it. And my husband wouldn't go to a strip club, it's not his thing. He watches WWE wrestling and won't watch the girls do their "matches" - he thinks they make themselves look like ridiculous fools.
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04-11-2007, 02:15 PM
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04-11-2007, 02:22 PM
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Thanks. I was thinking:
But I knew you couldn't be THAT big of a nerd!
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04-11-2007, 03:17 PM
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Thanks. I was thinking:
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ROFLMAO! I am a nerd but NOT that kind of nerd. 
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04-11-2007, 02:16 PM
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Dudes, let's not read too much into this - 60% of dudes think drinks w/ an ex is cheating because they would then have sex with their ex.
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04-11-2007, 02:37 PM
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Dudes, let's not read too much into this - 60% of dudes think drinks w/ an ex is cheating because they would then have sex with their ex.
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Ding ding ding!
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04-11-2007, 11:23 PM
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Dudes, let's not read too much into this - 60% of dudes think drinks w/ an ex is cheating because they would then have sex with their ex.
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That's true. The drinks itself isn't cheating (but yeah, it'd probably make me mad) but that kind of scenario can head into dangerous territory real quick.
I read that article today and I thought the same things as most of you. I mean, I've done half that stuff and never though twice about it and neither has anyone I've dated. I guess it's when you think about it as a situation that could lead to cheating is when it seems a little more tricky.
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04-13-2007, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted by KSig RC
Dudes, let's not read too much into this - 60% of dudes think drinks w/ an ex is cheating because they would then have sex with their ex.
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agreed... i think that would also fit under the dinner/drinks w/ an attractive co-worker umbrella.
lotsa crazy stuff happens when you have a lil wine!
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04-14-2007, 09:32 AM
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agreed... i think that would also fit under the dinner/drinks w/ an attractive co-worker umbrella.
lotsa crazy stuff happens when you have a lil wine!
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Yeah . . . no.
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04-14-2007, 10:32 AM
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Yeah . . . no.
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not saying everyone does that, just saying that's why the guys in the survey might have thought it was cheating.
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04-14-2007, 03:05 PM
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not saying everyone does that, just saying that's why the guys in the survey might have thought it was cheating.
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Basically you get drunk and sleep around with your co-workers is what you're saying.
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04-15-2007, 10:03 AM
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I think most of the things in the article are ok. It really depends on the circumstances and as long as it doesn't turn into something else. If you are in a relationship with a really jealous person though, then none of that is ok.
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04-19-2007, 02:00 AM
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I was 'talking to' a guy for 2 months last year. He would call me or IM me everyday and send me numerous text messages every morning starting off with 'Good morning sweetheart.' We would talk on the phone for hours and he made it clear that he wanted to date me. We even made plans for valentine's day and 'sweetheart' became his pet name for me. To this day, he doesn't think that texts and phone calls constituted doing anything wrong, but I sure did and I bet his fiance did to.
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04-19-2007, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl
I was 'talking to' a guy for 2 months last year. He would call me or IM me everyday and send me numerous text messages every morning starting off with 'Good morning sweetheart.' We would talk on the phone for hours and he made it clear that he wanted to date me. We even made plans for valentine's day and 'sweetheart' became his pet name for me. To this day, he doesn't think that texts and phone calls constituted doing anything wrong, but I sure did and I bet his fiance did to.
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oh my...that is horrible, yeah if you're engaged then your fiance is your sweetheart
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04-19-2007, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl
I was 'talking to' a guy for 2 months last year. He would call me or IM me everyday and send me numerous text messages every morning starting off with 'Good morning sweetheart.' We would talk on the phone for hours and he made it clear that he wanted to date me. We even made plans for valentine's day and 'sweetheart' became his pet name for me. To this day, he doesn't think that texts and phone calls constituted doing anything wrong, but I sure did and I bet his fiance did to.
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Weird, I think we know the same guy, right down to the "sweetheart" stuff. haha The guy that did this to me wasn't engaged but he lived with his girlfriend. I was young and naive enough to believe his line of b.s. about why things weren't adding up. But, live and learn. 
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