ideas to help out a fraternity as a sweetheart

[AlethiaSi]

i don't know the exact role of a sweetheart... but my exbf is in delta chi, and i would bring over bagels and breakfast stuff with my sisters before rush events to feed them... we went and cheered them on at their intermural sports games (softball and football).... we often made rush paraphenalia such as paddles, picture frames (manly ones lol ) and did like posters with pictures... with a little creativity... we also helped the guys make an AWESOME rush video... but otherwise- just being around and being nice was helpful...
if the house was messy or whatever from day to day stuff (not after a party or anything... we refused to clean up after those) we'd come over and surprise the boys by cleaning everything... that was always a big fave lol

[PSKPike]

My wife was a sweetheart of the fraternity my senior year in college (2005-2006) They did a lot for us, which was awesome because we were a new group on campus. She would come sit at our rush tables wearing letters or hand out flyers for us. The 4 sweethearts were at most of the parties, and rush events. They would come by with food or stuff they made us. We have a huge photo collage hanging in our house that they made from photos they took the whole year. On Valentines day they brought every brother candy and a card along with some Phi Sig stuff. They even recruited some new guys for us, because what guy can turn down a hot girl, lol. One of the best things they did for us was just being there when we needed them, they wore our letters and supported us during on campus functions, were at our parties, and brought their friends to our parties as well. Pretty much anything you do can be helpful and appreciated

[DSTRen13]

Originally Posted by AlethiaSi

i don't know the exact role of a sweetheart... but my exbf is in delta chi, and i would bring over bagels and breakfast stuff with my sisters before rush events to feed them... we went and cheered them on at their intermural sports games (softball and football).... we often made rush paraphenalia such as paddles, picture frames (manly ones lol ) and did like posters with pictures... with a little creativity... we also helped the guys make an AWESOME rush video... but otherwise- just being around and being nice was helpful...
if the house was messy or whatever from day to day stuff (not after a party or anything... we refused to clean up after those) we'd come over and surprise the boys by cleaning everything... that was always a big fave lol

Hm. If this is what all the other SOs do, then my fiance's brothers must think I hate them or something. Oh well ...