How do you trust someone?

[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

DSTCHAOS, I pretty much share your sentiments.

I don't see anything wrong with people meeeting other people off of the internet, but I sure as hell am not going to do it.

/hijack
I have met 3 men since I was of legal age from an internet dating sites...the first was a great guy who eventually came from NY to visit but the distance kinda faded things..the second was lame but a really nice guy and we are still friends...the third I met and we dated for several months...my thing is respecting your own comfort zone...I always meet dates out in public and they only get the work cell at first...I drive mysef and if he's crazy then he doesn't really know much about me...but I'm a talker so in my case we had talked on the phone/emailed for a while until I felt comfortable...I personally think that there are psychos in the club, on the net, at the market, etc so the internet isn't different from any other setting...I actually like the fact that on the internet at first at least a man has to be able to type, spell, and use the king's english correctly.I still have the same requirements that I have with a man I met elsewhere,...ie eduacation, no more than 1 child if any, a sense of spirituality, etc..from there it's the phone conversations...I don't know I was kinda adventurous/crazy in my younger years...now I'm a mommy and its all different...kinda...

[1908Revelations]

^^^ Oh, I agree that there are crazy people everywhere!!! I am just more of a skeptic about the internet. I don't frequent clubs, but I got cussed out about a month ago for not giving a guy my number. I was being nice about it, but he was not hearing it.

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[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

^^^ Oh, I agree that there are crazy people everywhere!!! I am just more of a skeptic about the internet. I don't frequent clubs, but I got cussed out about a month ago for not giving a guy my number. I was being nice about it, but he was not hearing it.

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I've been called a dyke several times for passing up guys. Another girl at my school walked past a guy without speaking when he catcalled her and he pulled a gun on her

[PM_Mama00]

He came clean today about everything, and I confessed that I found him on there. He has no clue that that's why I was being a psycho. He told me the reason he was trying to get me to come over alone was because he knew I wouldn't and wanted to scare me away because of his situation. He said he just looks for girls to talk to online, not to meet in person or anything.

His situation? He was 18 and met a girl online. They would go to 18 and up clubs and stuff. He broke up with her and one day he got a phone call from the cops. Apparently she was 15 but had a fake ID. Instead of going to jail for 15 years, he pled some other plea that I forget. I'm going to look into it with the state police. If he really is telling the truth, he's actually a pretty cool guy, and I wouldn't want to miss the chance of getting to know him.