Would you get seriously involved with a guy/girl if he/she......

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

They can be--whether or not it was here is subjective. I guess my glasses have a different lens.

Not subjective at all. We all have different lens. That doesn't make the truth any less apparent.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Not subjective at all. We all have different lens. That doesn't make the truth any less apparent.

In certain matters, I believe even the truth itself is subjective, making an absolute, objective truth, not only less apparent, but downright nonexistent. This is one of those matters.

But like I said: that's just how I see it. That's the truth to me. If you see it differently and no one unjustly suffers from that difference, then that's .

[PrettyBoy]

I knew this was coming. Very funny. I always get picked on here at this site, but that's cool. Greeks started picking on me my 1st night on this site because of my screen name. Hey, its cool though. My fraternity brothers tease me all the time because I'm not like them. They still love me for me though. Besides, I never picked my screen name because I think I'm attractive. I picked it because women do, and I haven't met a woman yet who hasn't found me attractive, so it's not like I can't get with a lot of women sexually, I just choose not too. I want to see what she's about 1st. They always want more than friendship from me, so why not go with the flow.

DSTCHAOS hit it on the nose. 4 or more, and a woman is not PrettyBoy material. You don't have to have a lot of partners to know how to have good sex and please your partner. Why even have sex if you can't please your partner. I would get more satisfaction knowing she was pleased rather than being pleased myself.

I'm not being judgemental, I've dealt with women who have had several partners and I don't really care for women like that. I only dealt with them because they lied to me by telling me what I wanted to hear just so they could get involved with me. I never get along with women like this, so it's not like I didn't give them a chance. If I just shut them out, then that's being judgemental. Now, I'll be friends with them and that's it, and even then I would rather not even associate myself with them at all. You all can laugh at me if you want, it doesn't bother me, I actually found these post to be funny too. Well, I gotta finish my sketches.

Later.

[JonInKC]

That reminds me of that Thompson Twins song from the 80's.

"Doctor doctor,
when I pee it's burnin' burnin'
Oh doctor doctor,
is this gon-or-heeeeeeeeeeahhhhhhh"

[christiangirl]

AAAANNNDDDD he sketches?? WHY THE HELL DID I MEET YOU ON THE NET INSTEAD OF REAL LIFE???

This is pissing me off. Someone up there is laughing at me. SO. HARD.

[cheerfulgreek]

PrettyBoy if you're not lying, YOU ARE RARE! Are you a virgin? Seriously are you, because if women are attracted to you like you say they are and you keep turning them down, then you're either a scared virgin or they're butt ugly. Which one is it? Guys like you died out in the 50s. 1850s!

What kind of sketches are you doing? Do you draw people?

If I'm with a guy, I will eventually ask how many partners he's had. My X told me he slept with 29 girls. Then he said he thinks it was 29. Well, he was my 1st (unfortunately) and the only guy I've been intimate with, but we broke up for good just recently, and I've dated a lot guys since we broke up, and all of them wanted to get into my pants. (guys are such pigs) I know their little game now. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. I think if I wanted a serious intimate realtionship, I gotta know how many. It wouldn't really matter as much, I just wanna know. If I had my choice I would prefer to be with someone with a lower amount of sexual partners.

The sex I had was bad, I guess. I mean it wasn't what I thought it would be. It was really quick. Not sure why, but everytime we did it, it was quick and kind of rough. He wasn't gentle at all. I've always heard that it's supposed to hurt the 1st time, but I didn't feel any pain. It was over before I could feel anything. I always knew when it was about to be over with because that's when he would get really aggressive with me. "Ouch". Once he was done then he would fall asleep and snore. No pillow talk or anything. What a jerk. I just had a bad experience. I wish my 1st could have been with someone more committed, more romantic and not a cheater. I'm going through drama with him now. He wants me back really bad, and I won't go back. I went back too many times and he kept cheating. I'm older now and I'm not wasting my time with jerks anymore. The next guy I give my body to has to me marriage material.

[PrettyBoy]

No, I'm not a virgin, and some of the women that I have come in contact with are attractive and some aren't. I've had two relationships. One was kind of serious, but I eventually realized she was a slut, because she cheated on me. The 2nd one was very, very serious. I really don't want to go into detail about that one, but I was in love with her. I was really hurt by that one, which is why I haven't gotten involved in another relationship since. I've tried dating, but the excitement and trust just isn't there anymore. Both women that I was with had a very, very high number of partners before me. So I've just been intimate with two.

I can sketch pretty much anything. I'm taking classes for auto design, so I generally don't draw the human body much anymore. I used to draw from live models mostly, but now I only draw people next to the vehicles I design only to show scale. Last night I had to do 100 ideation sketches of a boring youth vehicle.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

DSTCHAOS hit it on the nose. 4 or more, and a woman is not PrettyBoy material. You don't have to have a lot of partners to know how to have good sex and please your partner. Why even have sex if you can't please your partner. I would get more satisfaction knowing she was pleased rather than being pleased myself.

I'm not being judgemental, I've dealt with women who have had several partners and I don't really care for women like that. I only dealt with them because they lied to me by telling me what I wanted to hear just so they could get involved with me. I never get along with women like this, so it's not like I didn't give them a chance. If I just shut them out, then that's being judgemental. Now, I'll be friends with them and that's it, and even then I would rather not even associate myself with them at all. You all can laugh at me if you want, it doesn't bother me, I actually found these post to be funny too. Well, I gotta finish my sketches.

I never said you had to have ANY sexual partners to know (or be able to learn) how to please your mate. I'm just amused that the "how many" question is still asked and that there are people (usually men, since women know that sexual promiscuity is accepted from men) who formulate how many partners it's okay for their partner to have had.

I've known women, who have only had 1 sexual partner, refuse to answer such a question from their mate. Simply because the "how many" question was created to perpetuate a gendered double standard.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

I never said you had to have ANY sexual partners to know (or be able to learn) how to please your mate. I'm just amused that the "how many" question is still asked and that there are people (usually men, since women know that sexual promiscuity is accepted from men) who formulate how many partners it's okay for their partner to have had.

I've known women, who have only had 1 sexual partner, refuse to answer such a question from their mate. Simply because the "how many" question was created to perpetuate a gendered double standard.

I think the men who call themselves players are just as bad as the women who sleep around, but I do agree, it is a double standard. I still have to know how many though.