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Originally Posted by Cutiexxxhail
Hey Everyone! I am currently pledging a sororiety at my school. Durring rush, I was torn between two. I am now regretting the descion I made. I know it has only been a few weeks since I pledged, but I feel unhappy in the choice. All the girls are clique-y and I do not find that any of them want to talk to me. I cannot be myself infront of these girls. I feel like my pledge class hates me and do things without me often.
Did anyone else go through this ever?? Do you think this will change?? Should I drop the sororiety? Does anyone have any advice?
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This will sound corny (it always did when my mom said it), but I have found it to be true. You have to be a friend to have a friend. Also along those lines - you will get out of any organization only what you put into it.
I think you will find that in giving, you will receive even more. Only you can make the effort and after giving it some time will see how it works out.
I can tell you that I do think everyone goes through this. There is sort of a let down right after recruitment and all the craziness is over. I remember standing in line before my first meeting where I was to be pinned and officially pledged and thinking "what am I doing here...is this really what I want...have I made the right decision...what does all of this mean".
If you get involved that is the way to get to know people and it should help you get used to this idea of a sorority and help you find your place. Best wishes!
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