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I wouldn't go back to the house that hazed, but the small group that is new might be worth another look. I think her impression of the girls is just based on her roommate who might not be typical.
I thought rush was pretty fun, so going to events and parties never seemed like a hardship. Individuals on both sides meet new people and enhance the reputations of the groups they're in. It's not a waste of time unless you are sure that you'd never accept a bid, and the group doesn't see it as PR. (Even though I only joined one, some of my positive feelings about other groups were formed during rush.)
OP: I'm a little perplexed about a campus on which everyone does informal. It seems like some groups would already be a total. What's the deal at your school?
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