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Originally Posted by BabyPiNK_FL
are you serious? so you are still affiliated but because of x y and z reasons you are not allowed to wear letters? Is this in your national rules or your chapter bylaws or something because this would have me up in arms! In Phi Mu, you do not have inactivity, you blue form, (which is more or less the same thing in some situations), when this occurs, you become an alumnae with all of the full rights of an alumna. (Reasons for this would among others, include not being a full time student.) I could never imagine someone chasing down all of the girls who are being lazy with gpa, payment, not showing up to things to make sure they aren't wearing letters. They're initiated, it's their right. (And even before initiation, it's their right!) And they'd probably put the fear of God into anyone who tried to tell them not to! (Despite the fact that they aren't really concerned about anything)!
what happens if you graduate then? if you don't join an alumnae chapter does nationals swoop down and grab your tshirts and badges since you're no longer enrolled in a school and no longer have the "privileges to wear letters"?
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holy crap, settle down!!
First off, it is not the "right" of everyone's group before initiation to wear letters.
I have to say that this is the first time I've ever heard of not being able to wear letters if you're inactive in a friendly way - i.e. if you're not full time, etc - but apparently Stef doesn't have a problem with it, so that's her business.
And if someone was being lazy with payment and not making GPA and not showing up to things - she should be terminated, and she should return all lettered items to the chapter. She didn't live up to her end of the contract, therefore she doesn't get to keep wearing letters.