First of all, I would stop using the term "incest" when referring to this situation. That's not a label you should apply to your organization.
Second, I'd like to point out that I think most (if not all) NPC sororities/fraternities have said they do NOT support auxillary groups, so please do not assume that members of non-co-ed organizations have an "affiliate fraternity or sorority" and can relate to your situation.
Finally, I'll just say that it does not surprise me at all that these relationships are happening in your group, in fact I'd be floored if it wasn't happening frequently. When you spend a lot of time with people of the opposite sex and form close ties, hook-ups and dating happen. If the relationships are healthy, and don't cause harmful drama, why don't you accept it as a good way to find one's spouse/SO?
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