Confessions...

BabyBlue91 · #1 12-31-2006, 01:34 PM

While doing some business rounds with some colleagues in October, I met a gentleman. I thought nothing of it then, but when we met one on one a couple of weeks later I went home absolutely sprung ... and have been ever since!

Right now my husband is in grad school (this weekend the cycle starts all over again) and most of the time I am alone with my thoughts of Mr. Sprung.

In November I bought a pretty negligee that to this date still has the tags on it. This week I bought sexy underwear, something I hadn't done in years and have never done in all the years I've been with DH.

I haven't thought about being with anyone else in almost six years. I know if it's meant to be, it will happen, but I can't help but wonder ...

Someone needs to hose me down because I have never been this hot for anyone!

GodlyAspiringDr · #2 12-31-2006, 01:55 PM

@ BabyBlue

Girl don't let that new image and new body have you acting crazy and not using your good judgement...

The hot flashes are temporary, but your hubby's love is eternal...

But it is kind of exciting to fantasize, huh?!

Keep chanting to yourself - I'm a good girl... I'm a good girl... and then go give hubby a hug

kiml122 · #3 12-31-2006, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by BabyBlue91

While doing some business rounds with some colleagues in October, I met a gentleman. I thought nothing of it then, but when we met one on one a couple of weeks later I went home absolutely sprung ... and have been ever since!

Right now my husband is in grad school (this weekend the cycle starts all over again) and most of the time I am alone with my thoughts of Mr. Sprung.

In November I bought a pretty negligee that to this date still has the tags on it. This week I bought sexy underwear, something I hadn't done in years and have never done in all the years I've been with DH.

I haven't thought about being with anyone else in almost six years. I know if it's meant to be, it will happen, but I can't help but wonder ...

Someone needs to hose me down because I have never been this hot for anyone!

OH MY!!!!! BB91, I have a question for you? Is your husband overweight, or is he "normal" weight? I ask this because I'm wondering if you are seeing this guy with your new weight and newfound good feelings about yourself and wanting to step out there because of the new you, but I'm saying slow down...he he he, your husband was there thru the ups, and now the downs....he he he

BabyBlue91 · #4 12-31-2006, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by kiml122

OH MY!

I've PM'd you!

kiml122 · #5 01-01-2007, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by BabyBlue91

I've PM'd you!

Check your PM

BellaSF · #6 01-11-2007, 11:23 AM

Whenever I meet a guy I don't like or change my mind about a guy I'm dating to get rid of him I pretend that I'm crazy. I will laugh hysterically for no reason at all, call repeatedly and talk about dumb stuff &/or tell them I'm Lucifer and start to roar(lol). I may even give them the rejection hotline number if I'm in a different state.

Kamryn · #7 01-24-2007, 03:55 AM

My confessions…

I think I may be single for the rest of my life… Seriously, I have never seen a successful relationship/marriage in my lifetime. I’ve lost faith in the idea of having a family with a father in the house. The only thing that can restore that faith is my faith that God can make this happen in my life regardless of what I’ve seen. That would be a MIRACLE! Sometimes it’s hard for me to walk by faith and not by sight. Needless to say, all of the men in my life (family and friends) have cheated to the point that it has ruined their marriages/relationships. So it’s hard for me to believe that I would be any different. I also think that I wouldn’t know how to be a wife with a husband because I’m too independent, like the women in my life. As much as I want to have a family, I sometimes feel that it would be best that I save someone from having to deal with my own insecurities based on my loved ones experiences. When you’ve never seen a successful relationship your ENTIRE life, have cousins and siblings popping up out of nowhere, and witnessed cheating and cheaters being caught from the time you were young enough to remember; I guess it can have an effect on you.

KAPPAtivating · #8 01-24-2007, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Kamryn

My confessions…

I think I may be single for the rest of my life… Seriously, I have never seen a successful relationship/marriage in my lifetime. I’ve lost faith in the idea of having a family with a father in the house. The only thing that can restore that faith is my faith that God can make this happen in my life regardless of what I’ve seen. That would be a MIRACLE! Sometimes it’s hard for me to walk by faith and not by sight. Needless to say, all of the men in my life (family and friends) have cheated to the point that it has ruined their marriages/relationships. So it’s hard for me to believe that I would be any different. I also think that I wouldn’t know how to be a wife with a husband because I’m too independent, like the women in my life. As much as I want to have a family, I sometimes feel that it would be best that I save someone from having to deal with my own insecurities based on my loved ones experiences. When you’ve never seen a successful relationship your ENTIRE life, have cousins and siblings popping up out of nowhere, and witnessed cheating and cheaters being caught from the time you were young enough to remember; I guess it can have an effect on you.

^^^I have had similar situations. Very few people in my families have successful relationships or marriages. As a man, I come from a LONG line of cheating men, but I recognize the generational curse. I seriously pray on a regular basis to allow me to break this cycle. In order to keep from following in the same path, I have chosen to be single (for right now) because I haven't met the right woman yet. Don't downplay your independence because some men find independence sexy. I am one who does. It is okay to be independent, but the factor is being able to negotiate!

humbleme · #9 10-21-2008, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Kamryn

My confessions…

I think I may be single for the rest of my life… Seriously, I have never seen a successful relationship/marriage in my lifetime. I’ve lost faith in the idea of having a family with a father in the house. The only thing that can restore that faith is my faith that God can make this happen in my life regardless of what I’ve seen. That would be a MIRACLE! Sometimes it’s hard for me to walk by faith and not by sight. Needless to say, all of the men in my life (family and friends) have cheated to the point that it has ruined their marriages/relationships. So it’s hard for me to believe that I would be any different. I also think that I wouldn’t know how to be a wife with a husband because I’m too independent, like the women in my life. As much as I want to have a family, I sometimes feel that it would be best that I save someone from having to deal with my own insecurities based on my loved ones experiences. When you’ve never seen a successful relationship your ENTIRE life, have cousins and siblings popping up out of nowhere, and witnessed cheating and cheaters being caught from the time you were young enough to remember; I guess it can have an effect on you.

THIS....is the story of my LIFE! I'm with you 100% on this one. Everytime i think there is even a remote chance that i may get involved with someone, i start to back away, thinking "i dont know the first thing about being in a relationship, and this guy shouldnt even waste his time"

delph998 · #10 12-31-2006, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by BabyBlue91

While doing some business rounds with some colleagues in October, I met a gentleman. I thought nothing of it then, but when we met one on one a couple of weeks later I went home absolutely sprung ... and have been ever since!

Right now my husband is in grad school (this weekend the cycle starts all over again) and most of the time I am alone with my thoughts of Mr. Sprung.

In November I bought a pretty negligee that to this date still has the tags on it. This week I bought sexy underwear, something I hadn't done in years and have never done in all the years I've been with DH.

I haven't thought about being with anyone else in almost six years. I know if it's meant to be, it will happen, but I can't help but wonder ...

Someone needs to hose me down because I have never been this hot for anyone!

Check your PM.

BabyBlue91 · #11 01-01-2007, 03:19 PM

I just got an email from my last crush (before I started dating DH). We used to work for the same company and had not spoken in about three years. He has since moved south to be with family. What is going on?

GodlyAspiringDr · #12 01-01-2007, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by BabyBlue91

I just got an email from my last crush (before I started dating DH). We used to work for the same company and had not spoken in about three years. He has since moved south to be with family. What is going on?

The devil...

Girl, Tell him, he's a liar!

lil_sunshine · #13 08-14-2008, 03:01 PM

I confess:

I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!

It took us being together on and off for eight years, going through various trials and tribulations and me overcoming my own issues in order to realize that. I've decided to just be happy, and use this as an opportunity for us to grow together and see past each other's imperfections. *exhaling*

PerfectVerse06 · #14 08-14-2008, 04:33 PM

lil_sunshine!!!!

lil_sunshine · #15 08-15-2008, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by PerfectVerse06

lil_sunshine!!!!

PV06!!!!!!!!! *waving*