What would raise a yellow, or red flag on a 1st date for you?

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Dionysus

This is insane, you'll ditch a guy because he watches soaps?

I already ditched a guy for watching soaps. He would say he was coming over to our house to visit me, but he would really want to come over to watch his soap on HDTV. What a dork!

[ASUADPi]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Red Flags: Compares his past relationships to his mother
Talks about Xs a lot
A current or former playboy
Has an earing in one or both ears
Has any kind of felonies
He doesn't like greeks
Doesn't like animals
Uses vulgar language in regular conversation
Watches soaps
A workaholic. Any kind of holic.

Yellow Flags: I don't have any. I walk away from those too .

Mine would be more the earring in one or both ears. A guy that I really, really liked (who I worked with last year) had an earring in one ear (can't remember if it was the left or the right). It worked for him. (Too bad he had a girlfriend most of the year).

As for the soaps, hey I love watching soaps because they are so damn corny. If a guy can sit down and make fun of them with me, more power to him. My grandpa still watches Y & R (even though it was my grandma's soap and she died a year ago).

[BlessedOne04]

Along with many others that have been stated here are some other jewels!!! Something I like to call my top 5 for this year!

1. I usually don't find big girls attractive but for you I'll make an exception! (WTH!?!) RED Flag

2. If he voluntarily tells me what he is like sexually. (Hayle No!) RED flag

3. If he goes on and on about the accomplishments of his father/mother and how he followed their exact footsteps. (Ummm are you an individual?) Yellow!

4. If he talks about the high expectations everyone has of him and he is REQUIRED to bring home a pretty girl and if his mom doesn't accept you then he cannot even consider being with you. (A little much I think!) RED Flag

5. He talks about his kids (yes plural) and how he has had a kid with every relationship but after the baby the mother starts "trippin". RED flag