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11-22-2006, 10:49 PM
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Elementary Lessons Relearned
Love has NO color. period. Hope we all can get a clue and stop quibbling over small things such as color. Love is Love and if you are blessed enough to find it... it is worth holding on to. If you are NOT willing to date outside of your race... you may need a check-up.
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11-23-2006, 12:47 AM
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Originally Posted by SIGMAtivity
Love has NO color. period. Hope we all can get a clue and stop quibbling over small things such as color. Love is Love and if you are blessed enough to find it... it is worth holding on to. If you are NOT willing to date outside of your race... you may need a check-up.
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I can't argue with you on that, but other people outside of the relationship are what cause the problems.
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11-23-2006, 01:30 AM
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Originally Posted by SIGMAtivity
Love has NO color. period. Hope we all can get a clue and stop quibbling over small things such as color. Love is Love and if you are blessed enough to find it... it is worth holding on to. If you are NOT willing to date outside of your race... you may need a check-up.
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That's funny because the average person's friends are the same race and ethnicity as they are. The average person worship and mingles with the same race and ethnicity of people. Is this choice or chance based on a segregated society? Either case, why's it so outlandish for the average person (with exception for certain minority groups like Asian women who have high rates of marriage to white men) to not date outside her or his race?
That's why this topic is so salient to me. I could give a damn who people love. It's the social relevance in the patterns of who they love.
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11-24-2006, 07:09 PM
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Either case, why's it so outlandish for the average person to not date outside her or his race?
It's the social relevance in the patterns of who they love.
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I think that is what is driving many folks to scoot to the other side... They often have this "grass is greener" mentality. It is denial of some folks selves. If they never have to truly have to identify in this vague innoccuous culture, never have to have a grasp of their full self and true thoughts, then they can freely associate by flitting around.
There are true social ills that many ethnic groups. Each have different issues, and sometimes it works out for the better. But I do find it lame that dating someone solely because of their ethnic group or cultural identity loser like.
Like, "I won't date a black woman, 'cuz she's too dark and black is ugly" mentality... And sometimes is hurts to think that folks actually KNOW and THINK that ALL women of African descent are ugly. That is what hurts me the most...
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11-25-2006, 02:22 AM
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I definitely don't think the grass is greener on either side. I do believe that color shouldn't matter. We're all human beings, the unfortunate thing is people outside of the relationship are what cause the problems. I would get involved with whoever made me happy. Color doesn't matter, but the issues outside would be the only thing that I would have to get used to.
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11-25-2006, 02:18 PM
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innoccuous
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When a word has 4 syllables then it's not necessary.
I feel what you're saying though.
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11-25-2006, 10:40 PM
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When a word has 4 syllables then it's not necessary.
I feel what you're saying though.
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The wrong emPHAsis on the wrong sylLABle? 
I have a hard time separating my pathnology words when I do necropsies... You know you have describe EVERYTHING... In my case, "Dorsal vs. Ventral", in a transverse sagittal section... I get confused. 
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11-27-2006, 04:54 PM
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The wrong emPHAsis on the wrong sylLABle?
I have a hard time separating my pathnology words when I do necropsies... You know you have describe EVERYTHING... In my case, "Dorsal vs. Ventral", in a transverse sagittal section... I get confused. |
You're too silly. Let me get my dictionary out.
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11-27-2006, 01:58 PM
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Like, "I won't date a black woman, 'cuz she's too dark and black is ugly" mentality... And sometimes is hurts to think that folks actually KNOW and THINK that ALL women of African descent are ugly. That is what hurts me the most...
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EXACTLY. it's like I said before... if you won't date someone from another race because you think all people of that race have a trait that you don't like (no matter what that trait is)That is the definition of prejudice.
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11-24-2006, 05:22 AM
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Originally Posted by SIGMAtivity
Love has NO color. period. Hope we all can get a clue and stop quibbling over small things such as color. Love is Love and if you are blessed enough to find it... it is worth holding on to. If you are NOT willing to date outside of your race... you may need a check-up.
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I agree.
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