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Old 11-09-2006, 12:16 PM
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She hasn't given specifics. Wanting moral support doesn't mean she has to tell everyone everything.

No one has a right to know, and if it's not your GLO that's doubly true.
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Old 11-09-2006, 12:20 PM
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No one said anything about her "having" to do anything or us having a "right" to know.

I just think it's silly and it's my "right" to express that.
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Old 11-09-2006, 12:22 PM
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No one said anything about her "having" to do anything or us having a "right" to know.

I just think it's silly and it's my "right" to express that.
I agree, but I'm not sure why you're quoting things.

I think that the whole "error of her ways" thing is stupid too. Whether in reference to a GLO or a husband in terms of race.
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Old 11-09-2006, 12:25 PM
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I agree, but I'm not sure why you're quoting things.
I was using your words.

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I think that the whole "error of her ways" thing is stupid too. Whether in reference to a GLO or a husband in terms of race.
Yeah well you also don't see the sarcasm in it.
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Old 11-09-2006, 12:27 PM
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I was using your words.



Yeah well you also don't see the sarcasm in it.
A) if you use my words then get them right
B) It wasn't directed specifically at you
C) I see the sarcasm, doesn't mean that some people don't feel that way
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Old 11-09-2006, 12:33 PM
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A) if you use my words then get them right
B) It wasn't directed specifically at you
C) I see the sarcasm, doesn't mean that some people don't feel that way

1) "has" becomes "having" when it needs to
2) I gotcha but you quoted something from my post.
3) Yep.
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Old 11-09-2006, 12:38 PM
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1) "has" becomes "having" when it needs to
2) I gotcha but you quoted something from my post.
3) Yep.
That's not quoting, and I didn't quote anything fron you.

ETA: I see what you're referring to but that wasn't a quote (hence the lack of quotation) it was my own words.
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Old 11-09-2006, 04:43 PM
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She hasn't given specifics. Wanting moral support doesn't mean she has to tell everyone everything.

No one has a right to know, and if it's not your GLO that's doubly true.
What if it IS MY GLO (or WEND08's or jubilance1922's or TheEpitome1920's)? WE have a right to know. So, Buttonz, please take my Soror's advice and inform a member of the affected organization forthwith.

Thank you, and good night!





BTW, I didn't know GC was the place for moral support? I thought she was asking a question about a policy so that something could be done. If she needs moral support, thats what her girlfriends and sisters/sorors are for, NOT a messageboard.
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Old 11-09-2006, 04:56 PM
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What if it IS MY GLO (or WEND08's or jubilance1922's or TheEpitome1920's)? WE have a right to know. So, Buttonz, please take my Soror's advice and inform a member of the affected organization forthwith.
No offense, but what exactly are you going to do about it besides informing nationals/the chapter she joined? Buttonz is doing that anyway, and I would assume you can trust that your organization will do the right thing whether a member or a non-member tells them about it.
I can understand why you're curious, and why you would want to know if it was your GLO -we're all curious- but you don't have the right to know anything about this situation except what Buttonz tells you.
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Old 11-09-2006, 05:03 PM
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No offense, but what exactly are you going to do about it besides informing nationals/the chapter she joined? Buttonz is doing that anyway, and I would assume you can trust that your organization will do the right thing whether a member or a non-member tells them about it.
I can understand why you're curious, and why you would want to know if it was your GLO -we're all curious- but you don't have the right to know anything about this situation except what Buttonz tells you.
mccoyred said "inform a member of the affected national organization." She didn't say "inform ME if it's DST."

She meant "we" as in "my sorority as a national entity if it's us", not "we" as in "Delta Sigma Theta members who post on GC."
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Old 11-09-2006, 05:06 PM
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She was responding specifically to a post that was about GC members not having any right to know. I figured when she responded "If it's my GLO or *list of other GCers'* GLO WE have a right to know" that GC members were the referents of that we.
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Old 11-09-2006, 05:40 PM
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She was responding specifically to a post that was about GC members not having any right to know. I figured when she responded "If it's my GLO or *list of other GCers'* GLO WE have a right to know" that GC members were the referents of that we.
She was probably stating that any member should be contacted, which is what Buttonz did after deciding not to contact a nhq.
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Old 11-09-2006, 05:35 PM
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No offense, but what exactly are you going to do about it besides informing nationals/the chapter she joined? Buttonz is doing that anyway, and I would assume you can trust that your organization will do the right thing whether a member or a non-member tells them about it.
I can understand why you're curious, and why you would want to know if it was your GLO -we're all curious- but you don't have the right to know anything about this situation except what Buttonz tells you.
Why do some of you type stuff like this?

Buttonz has probably already either contacted someone's NHQ or PM'd a member of the NPHC sorority to let her make the next move. But since you're not in an NPHC sorority you don't have a "right" to question us. Or maybe you do, since we're all just posting on a message board. None of us are holding guns to anyone's heads. "Right?" Geesh......
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Old 11-09-2006, 05:09 PM
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What if it IS MY GLO (or WEND08's or jubilance1922's or TheEpitome1920's)? WE have a right to know. So, Buttonz, please take my Soror's advice and inform a member of the affected organization forthwith.

Thank you, and good night!
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Old 11-09-2006, 05:38 PM
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I took eveyone's advice and PMed a member of XYZ.
You suck for not using text coloring to give us a hint.
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