Defense of Alumni Initiation Sub Forum

[Jill1228]

You are SO my hero!

Originally Posted by KunjaPrincess

Discussing was fine until people started blowing smoke up peoples asses and downplaying the experience to those of us who went about it the right way. Oh yeah I forgot you needed clarification about what the right way was! DISCRETELY!!! If you don't know what discretion means then you are likely burning bridges.

Have you ever heard of actions speaking louder than words? Maybe you should ponder that. Giving people hope that AI is easy and the answer to many of the PNAI's on this board is so not true. I don't care how many people on here are AI's, the fact is it is not a common occurance and to imply that it is is not fair to the PNAM's or the initiated members who are the ones dealing with the slack when they have to field the questions.

PMing more than one person asking for help is going about it the wrong way. Many people on here talk outside of the forums and it isn't to hard to figure out that Suzy PNAM PMd me, Smrtblnde, JILL1228, OTW and KDDani (pulling names out of my hat, not saying it really occured) asking for help. Especially since a lot of the time the PNAM's don't even do their research and figure out who is friendly with each other.

Now as to why the hostility? Simple. You give AI's a bad name. Every single thread on here you start acting like this big martyr, picking fights, instigating and generally acting like a prize female dog. I didn't have a problem with you until I realized that you were right in the thick of every single "discussion" on AI and are usually the one causing many of the problems. You are making a nice friendly big group of panhellanic sisters get hostile with each other and are generally giving greek life a bad name. If I was not initiated already and foudn this site I would see you causing so much trouble and think I was back in high school so why would I want to research any further.