rushing again

LPIDelta · #1 10-19-2006, 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by dancergrl

i wanted it to work and it ddnt, does this mean i can never join a house where i would better fit in?

Are you in a chapter affiliated with NPC?

dancergrl · #2 10-19-2006, 05:41 PM

yes its npc

epchick · #3 10-19-2006, 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by dancergrl

yes its npc

no, you can't join another NPC group--no matter how comfortable you feel with them.

AChiOhSnap · #4 10-19-2006, 05:44 PM

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Originally Posted by dancergrl

yes its npc

Sorry, you're stuck where you are then, unless there's a local that wouldn't have any policies precluding them from accepting you.

dancergrl · #5 10-19-2006, 05:49 PM

it seems unfair that i am now stuck

AChiOhSnap · #6 10-19-2006, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by dancergrl

it seems unfair that i am now stuck

Sorry, that's how it's always been with NPC organizations.

cusecutie · #7 10-19-2006, 05:56 PM

i wish i had known this!

AChiOhSnap · #8 10-19-2006, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by cusecutie

i wish i had known this!

??? are you the same poster?

ETA: You asked this same question back in April, and you got the same responses then.

33girl · #9 10-19-2006, 05:47 PM

It's not even November yet.

If you went through rush in - the earliest I can think of - mid August, that means you've been in the sorority for only 2 months.

As I said in my pm to you, to go through feelings of "what did I do" after the busy time of pledging is perfectly normal. Especially if you're in a larger chapter, to not feel like you've found your place right away is more common than you'd think. Give the girls and the sorority a chance.

If you still detest it next semester or at the end of next year - then disaffiliate. But you're not in a situation where if you move quickly, you'll be able to be in another sorority. You can't, unless it's a local or a non-NPC national group. So you might as well try to make it work, at least until the end of this semester.