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Old 10-19-2006, 05:37 PM
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i wanted it to work and it ddnt, does this mean i can never join a house where i would better fit in?
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Old 10-19-2006, 05:39 PM
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i wanted it to work and it ddnt, does this mean i can never join a house where i would better fit in?
If you joined an NPC sorority...then no.
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Old 10-19-2006, 05:40 PM
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i wanted it to work and it ddnt, does this mean i can never join a house where i would better fit in?
Are you in a chapter affiliated with NPC?
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Old 10-19-2006, 05:41 PM
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yes its npc
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Old 10-19-2006, 05:43 PM
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yes its npc
no, you can't join another NPC group--no matter how comfortable you feel with them.
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Old 10-19-2006, 05:44 PM
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yes its npc
Sorry, you're stuck where you are then, unless there's a local that wouldn't have any policies precluding them from accepting you.
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Old 10-19-2006, 05:49 PM
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it seems unfair that i am now stuck
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Old 10-19-2006, 05:52 PM
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it seems unfair that i am now stuck
Sorry, that's how it's always been with NPC organizations.
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Old 10-19-2006, 05:56 PM
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i wish i had known this!
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Old 10-19-2006, 05:47 PM
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It's not even November yet.

If you went through rush in - the earliest I can think of - mid August, that means you've been in the sorority for only 2 months.

As I said in my pm to you, to go through feelings of "what did I do" after the busy time of pledging is perfectly normal. Especially if you're in a larger chapter, to not feel like you've found your place right away is more common than you'd think. Give the girls and the sorority a chance.

If you still detest it next semester or at the end of next year - then disaffiliate. But you're not in a situation where if you move quickly, you'll be able to be in another sorority. You can't, unless it's a local or a non-NPC national group. So you might as well try to make it work, at least until the end of this semester.
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Old 10-19-2006, 05:44 PM
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i wanted it to work and it ddnt, does this mean i can never join a house where i would better fit in?
Yes, that is exactly what it means.
Either make the best of it or drop out.

Make change or drop out.

That is your options.
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