Bad Boys - Page 8

VandalSquirrel · #**106** 09-30-2006, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by James

The stereotype he is mentioning in his post is that he doesn't believe a black girl would allow herself to be manhandled by a boyfriend. He is an entitlted to a non-atacking opinion.

His language is certainly off-color but nothing that hasn't bee seen on here before. Do you really believe that his post needs to be edited?

I believe you need to be a moderator and enforce the TOS.

KAY10 · #**107** 09-30-2006, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Langox510x

I'm one happy motherfucker, but last night was crazy!! I was just chillen at a party and then I ran into my friend Liz (the girl I talked about before) and her boyfriend. They were fighting and he pushed her (accross the room). Needless to say I was drunk pissed and ready to fight. I was with about 5 pledges who saw the whole thing and were down to beat this b!tch down too. The only thing that was holding me back was the fact that I knew she would just get angry at me. I had to hold these guys back, but I swear if he ever touches here again I will damn near kill that man!!

Sad thing is that I later saw her trying to appologize for what he did.

Damn, I'm sorry for my sterotype, but that shit woulda never happened if it was a black girl.

Dude, I went to a black college and stuff like that happens to black women too.

pinkies up · #**108** 10-01-2006, 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10

Dude, I went to a black college and stuff like that happens to black women too.

However we will grab a boxcutter

KAY10 · #**109** 10-01-2006, 03:41 AM

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Originally Posted by pinkies up

However we will grab a boxcutter

OOhsoflyDELTA#9 · #**110** 10-01-2006, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by pinkies up

However we will grab a boxcutter

Co-sign....or at least call our cousins to come handle our business...lol....

valkyrie · #**111** 10-02-2006, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Langox510x

Damn, I'm sorry for my sterotype, but that shit woulda never happened if it was a black girl.

The fact that your friend was abused by a man has nothing to do with her race.

ShamikaT · #**112** 10-02-2006, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by KAY10

Where have you been?

I've always told my girls, if I gets kilt by my man, they better cut him with some boxcutters at my funeral.

DON'T MESS WITH US!

valkyrie · #**113** 10-02-2006, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by ShamikaT

I've always told my girls, if I gets kilt by my man, they better cut him with some boxcutters at my funeral.

Langox510x · #**114** 10-02-2006, 08:13 PM

I was at a party this weekend and my friend Elizabeth was fighting with her boyfriend again. I cut and went to another party, but then a pledge came to me saying she got punched by her boyfriend and pushed all the way to the other side of the room, crashing against the wall. I was pissed, and walked back to fight him, but he was gone. I also didn't know exactly what to do thinking it might only further wreck our friendship. I really don't get this girl though because today she called me up talking about how even though he treats her like shit she still wants to be my friend how much she loved her boyfriend and still wants to be with him. Word for word she said "when things are good me and Mike are really good together".

I’ll let this guy slide for once especially since I didn’t see it, but if I hear about her getting hit again I will beat this man down.

AKA_Monet · #**115** 10-02-2006, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Langox510x

I was at a party this weekend and my friend Elizabeth was fighting with her boyfriend again. I cut and went to another party, but then a pledge came to me saying she got punched by her boyfriend and pushed all the way to the other side of the room, crashing against the wall. I was pissed, and walked back to fight him, but he was gone. I also didn't know exactly what to do thinking it might only further wreck our friendship. I really don't get this girl though because today she called me up talking about how even though he treats her like shit she still wants to be my friend how much she loved her boyfriend and still wants to be with him. Word for word she said "when things are good me and Mike are really good together".

I’ll let this guy slide for once especially since I didn’t see it, but if I hear about her getting hit again I will beat this man down.

Dude,

I am not even close to joking with you about your "friend". As the Chief Resident of GC Hospital I have the following suggestions:

1) You are not a trained and licensed mental health care professional it is not your responsibility to "take charge" and be the man.
2)You can get very hurt that way if you continue to be involved and for what? The girl may still go back to this batterer.
3)There are bijillion websites on how to handle domestic violence issues and there is a case worker at your school or workplace location.
4)The best you can to is tell her you will be there when she needs you by phone, but you will be alerting all authorities. And you do that chit anomynously because they'll think it's you...

I will post a grand rounds on domestic violence if I must... But, you are too young to be dealing with this idiocy, regardless of this girl's ethnicity. If you are her friend, the only thing you can do is report the boyfriend and get the po-po involved. She may never place charges, but at least a record will be started and DSHS will send somebody over.

Sincerely,

Dr. AKA_Monet

starang21 · #**116** 10-02-2006, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Langox510x

I was at a party this weekend and my friend Elizabeth was fighting with her boyfriend again. I cut and went to another party, but then a pledge came to me saying she got punched by her boyfriend and pushed all the way to the other side of the room, crashing against the wall. I was pissed, and walked back to fight him, but he was gone. I also didn't know exactly what to do thinking it might only further wreck our friendship. I really don't get this girl though because today she called me up talking about how even though he treats her like shit she still wants to be my friend how much she loved her boyfriend and still wants to be with him. Word for word she said "when things are good me and Mike are really good together".

I’ll let this guy slide for once especially since I didn’t see it, but if I hear about her getting hit again I will beat this man down.

your friend is an idiot

Langox510x · #**117** 10-02-2006, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Dude,

I am not even close to joking with you about your "friend". As the Chief Resident of GC Hospital I have the following suggestions:

1) You are not a trained and licensed mental health care professional it is not your responsibility to "take charge" and be the man.
2)You can get very hurt that way if you continue to be involved and for what? The girl may still go back to this batterer.
3)There are bijillion websites on how to handle domestic violence issues and there is a case worker at your school or workplace location.
4)The best you can to is tell her you will be there when she needs you by phone, but you will be alerting all authorities. And you do that chit anomynously because they'll think it's you...

I will post a grand rounds on domestic violence if I must... But, you are too young to be dealing with this idiocy, regardless of this girl's ethnicity. If you are her friend, the only thing you can do is report the boyfriend and get the po-po involved. She may never place charges, but at least a record will be started and DSHS will send somebody over.

Sincerely,

Dr. AKA_Monet

I can't get hurt by this girl if I don't let her that close to me. The dude is affraid of fighting me too so I don't think he'll be a problem. Oh and I don't mess with cops.

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Originally Posted by starang21

your friend is an idiot

I said the same thing.

BlessedOne04 · #**118** 10-02-2006, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21

your friend is an idiot

She is not an idiot. She may have issues that makes her feel obligated to stay in an abusive relationship.

Langox510x · #**119** 10-02-2006, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by BlessedOne04

She is not an idiot. She may have issues that makes her feel obligated to stay in an abusive relationship.

I can understand a girl who feels like she has nobody, but many and me others have laid that on the table in crystal. I’m not saying she’s an idiot, but honestly I have lost a little respect for her over this. I once thought she was a woman of independence, and would have expected far more then this out of her, but now I feel like she is even shutting me out of the picture. I told her today it feels like I'm trying to help her out and she returns the help with a slap to my face. I don't know how much I can take of this. In a minute she might really be on her own.

starang21 · #**120** 10-02-2006, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by BlessedOne04

She is not an idiot. She may have issues that makes her feel obligated to stay in an abusive relationship.

she is an idiot. if she feels obligated to stay in an abusive relationship, then i don't really pity her. she has poor self esteem and no backbone.