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Old 09-27-2006, 10:17 PM
KAY10 KAY10 is offline
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Hey, I thought KAPPA's were the ladies men, the pretty boys on every campus, and all the Kappa's I know are a little dogish to the females, lol!

No disrespect though, my dad's a Kappa, and I can't see him having ever disrespected a lady.

Anyways, my friend Elizabeth who has been my friend for about a year now is in a pretty bad situation. She is extremely pretty might I add, and is with this dude who is older and isn't even in college and told her the other week if she didn't do what he said he would just go out and cheat on her. He's called her fat, ugly, a child (shes 19) and has broken up with her thousands of times. I'll admit I haven't always been the good guy when it comes to the ladies but this guy is a joke.

I'm not ever overly nice to her, but I tried to stand up for her ad she ended up getting mad at me. One thing that gets me is how her roommate and this other girl told me Elizabeth should be with me and how I was far hotter then her boyfriend too. I guess I'm just the good guy and the good guy never gets the girl.
LOL. Yeah, Kappas have the "Pretty Boy" image nation wide and yes we are also considered to be players. Genltemen, but players. Fortunately not all of us are this way. I'm not. I am a pretty boy though. At least the ladies think I am. Seriously though the girl you were talking about will more than likely stay with guys like the one she's currently with until she's about 25. I don't know why they like guys like that. You're right though, the good guys rarely get the women, and if they do, it's never long, at least not when their young.
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Old 09-27-2006, 10:20 PM
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It's not even the topic. It's the way you keep trying to battle everyone.
I'm not trying to battle anyone. I'm just trying to have a conversation and get other opinions. No one has to agree with me. If you don't like this thread then ignore it. Good grief!

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Old 09-27-2006, 10:23 PM
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why do good girls like bad guys? knowing that bad guys tell mad lies
I have no idea. From what I've been reading some of them think good guys are doormats, and a couple of them are pissed at me for posting this thread.
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Old 09-27-2006, 10:24 PM
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your friend's problem is that she's an idiot for staying.
LMAO
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Old 09-28-2006, 07:43 PM
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I am not into guys that misstreet neglect or abuse me...thats for sure. However my ex boyfriend had no back bone. He told me that mre stuff like it was ok if I cheated on him. That was a bit of a turn off. The guy I am intereted in now drives me insane sometimes because he can be insensitive and a smarta**. However when it comes down to big things he has a heart. Thats an important thing. if the guy does not know where to draw the line between friendly teasing and plain verbal/emotional abuse there is a problem.
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Old 09-28-2006, 09:02 PM
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Ladies...

kddani, otterOX and Alphafrog:

KAY10 is just a "lil boy" (if you know what I mean)... Just like a horse... He still needs to be "broken in", trained (potty-wise and otherwise), and other things required for his "maturity".

You just take his questioning in "stride" and ask him if he could handle the "sets of nine" for at least 10-20 minutes...

KAY10-

Really sweetheart, there are plenty of young ladies out there with everything going for them that get caught up with the "thugs". Folks have written songs, books and movies.

I guess most women are hardheaded and just give up on themselves for lame as reasons.

But even though you say you aren't a thug, but your not a doormat, then what are you? A player? That makes you cavorting with the "thug enemy"--kinda sneaky...
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Old 09-29-2006, 05:05 AM
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kddani, otterOX and Alphafrog:

KAY10 is just a "lil boy" (if you know what I mean)... Just like a horse... He still needs to be "broken in", trained (potty-wise and otherwise), and other things required for his "maturity".

You just take his questioning in "stride" and ask him if he could handle the "sets of nine" for at least 10-20 minutes...

KAY10-

Really sweetheart, there are plenty of young ladies out there with everything going for them that get caught up with the "thugs". Folks have written songs, books and movies.

I guess most women are hardheaded and just give up on themselves for lame as reasons.

But even though you say you aren't a thug, but your not a doormat, then what are you? A player? That makes you cavorting with the "thug enemy"--kinda sneaky...
LOL. I'm more mature than you think. That little sets of nine??? That was funny. Well...I'm not a thug and I'm not a doormat. A player???? I don't consider myself a player, but I have had my share of AKAs

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Old 09-29-2006, 05:09 AM
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I am not into guys that misstreet neglect or abuse me...thats for sure. However my ex boyfriend had no back bone. He told me that mre stuff like it was ok if I cheated on him. That was a bit of a turn off. The guy I am intereted in now drives me insane sometimes because he can be insensitive and a smarta**. However when it comes down to big things he has a heart. Thats an important thing. if the guy does not know where to draw the line between friendly teasing and plain verbal/emotional abuse there is a problem.
You were with a guy that wouldn't care if you cheated on him? Damn.
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Old 09-29-2006, 04:10 PM
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LOL. I'm more mature than you think. That little sets of nine??? That was funny. Well...I'm not a thug and I'm not a doormat. A player???? I don't consider myself a player, but I have had my share of AKAs
Well, you know they always say...

There is always a Kappa between an AKA...

Alpha to the right of me,
Kappa to the left of me,
Alpha in front of me!


A-K-A all over my body!!!
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Old 09-29-2006, 11:32 PM
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Well, you know they always say...

There is always a Kappa between an AKA...

Alpha to the right of me,
Kappa to the left of me,
Alpha in front of me!


A-K-A all over my body!!!
LOL. O.K. You got me. That's kool though, I like the AKAs.
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Old 09-30-2006, 01:07 AM
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Personally bad boys don't peak my interest...anymore. In my wayward days I would have jumped at the chance to have a bad boy. As I got older I learned that bad boys do bad things and I'm not in to that at all!!
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Old 09-30-2006, 01:41 AM
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Personally bad boys don't peak my interest...anymore. In my wayward days I would have jumped at the chance to have a bad boy. As I got older I learned that bad boys do bad things and I'm not in to that at all!!
Yeah, that's kool. Don't give em' the time a day.
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Old 09-30-2006, 12:38 PM
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I'm one happy motherfucker, but last night was crazy!! I was just chillen at a party and then I ran into my friend Liz (the girl I talked about before) and her boyfriend. They were fighting and he pushed her (accross the room). Needless to say I was drunk pissed and ready to fight. I was with about 5 pledges who saw the whole thing and were down to beat this b!tch down too. The only thing that was holding me back was the fact that I knew she would just get angry at me. I had to hold these guys back, but I swear if he ever touches here again I will damn near kill that man!!

Sad thing is that I later saw her trying to appologize for what he did.

Damn, I'm sorry for my sterotype, but that shit woulda never happened if it was a black girl.
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Old 09-30-2006, 05:41 PM
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I'm one happy motherfucker, but last night was crazy!! I was just chillen at a party and then I ran into my friend Liz (the girl I talked about before) and her boyfriend. They were fighting and he pushed her (accross the room). Needless to say I was drunk pissed and ready to fight. I was with about 5 pledges who saw the whole thing and were down to beat this b!tch down too. The only thing that was holding me back was the fact that I knew she would just get angry at me. I had to hold these guys back, but I swear if he ever touches here again I will damn near kill that man!!

Sad thing is that I later saw her trying to appologize for what he did.

Damn, I'm sorry for my sterotype, but that shit woulda never happened if it was a black girl.
Apologizing for making a stereotype doesn't make it okay.
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Old 09-30-2006, 06:01 PM
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The stereotype he is mentioning in his post is that he doesn't believe a black girl would allow herself to be manhandled by a boyfriend. He is an entitlted to a non-atacking opinion.

His language is certainly off-color but nothing that hasn't bee seen on here before. Do you really believe that his post needs to be edited?

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Apologizing for making a stereotype doesn't make it okay.
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