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09-28-2006, 07:09 PM
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Conversely, would wanting to start dating exclusively after a month with 4 dates that went well be considered too soon?
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09-28-2006, 08:11 PM
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Conversely, would wanting to start dating exclusively after a month with 4 dates that went well be considered too soon?
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if there's a real connection felt by both parties and if you both hate casual dating, no. rock on.
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09-28-2006, 08:22 PM
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if there's a real connection felt by both parties and if you both hate casual dating, no. rock on.
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Like anything, it's up to the individuals in question. However, in my experience, if you start dating someone and you're both really into each other, you have waaaaay more than four dates in a month.
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09-28-2006, 08:36 PM
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Like anything, it's up to the individuals in question. However, in my experience, if you start dating someone and you're both really into each other, you have waaaaay more than four dates in a month.
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yes I agree. More like 4 dates in a week or week and a half.
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09-28-2006, 09:01 PM
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Like anything, it's up to the individuals in question. However, in my experience, if you start dating someone and you're both really into each other, you have waaaaay more than four dates in a month.
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yes I agree. More like 4 dates in a week or week and a half.
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I definitely agree. 
The only exceptions would be if both people are super busy (or they are buying into that crap about playing hard to get and acting unavailable  ).
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09-28-2006, 08:59 PM
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Conversely, would wanting to start dating exclusively after a month with 4 dates that went well be considered too soon?
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Nope. I assume they talk in between dates and get to know each other that way.
However, that's kind of funny to literally do a date per week. I opt to do more lunch and dinner dates during the week, in addition to seeing what's up for the weekend. But if you're dating more than one person you can get very busy and tired juggling all of that. So I guess a date per week for one guy makes sense afterall.
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09-28-2006, 09:54 PM
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Nope. I assume they talk in between dates and get to know each other that way.
However, that's kind of funny to literally do a date per week. I opt to do more lunch and dinner dates during the week, in addition to seeing what's up for the weekend. But if you're dating more than one person you can get very busy and tired juggling all of that. So I guess a date per week for one guy makes sense afterall.
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I thought the date per week thing was normal. Two maximum. That's the way it's always been with me.
When I read these dating/relationship/sex threads I feel like I live in a different universe. Or, maybe it isn't me, it's the people I used to hang with live in another universe. 
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09-28-2006, 10:00 PM
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I thought the date per week thing was normal. Two maximum. That's the way it's always been with me.
When I read these dating/relationship/sex threads I feel like I live in a different universe. Or, maybe it isn't me, it's the people I used to hang with live in another universe. |
Probably because you wanted it that way and/or your schedule called for it. If you and another person couldn't get enough of each other and were more spontaneous, maybe you'd do more than 2 dates a week. 
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09-29-2006, 09:40 AM
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what is considered a date? out to dinner? spending any time anywhere? I don't think going to Target is a "real" date. And a movie, yeah, I'd need to talk to you before you are my girlfriend, you can't just butter the popcorn in the dark.
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09-29-2006, 12:40 PM
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what is considered a date? out to dinner? spending any time anywhere? I don't think going to Target is a "real" date. And a movie, yeah, I'd need to talk to you before you are my girlfriend, you can't just butter the popcorn in the dark.
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A "date" doesn't have to be something formal. It could just be any form of quality time. But having a formal date is still very necessary to win someone over and keep their interest.
I also think exclusive couples should schedule dates so they can keep the charm, romance, and excitement going.
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09-29-2006, 12:58 PM
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A "date" doesn't have to be something formal. It could just be any form of quality time. But having a formal date is still very necessary to win someone over and keep their interest.
I also think exclusive couples should schedule dates so they can keep the charm, romance, and excitement going.
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okay, yeah i get that, but target? come on now.
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