need advice- best friend's sister rushing

[Tom Earp]

Originally Posted by Buttonz

Tom, I know the school that Daisy is talking about. My big's cousin was in a sorority there (an NPC one) and all I heard is hazing stories from her...and that is all my big heard also. Thankfully, my big didn't base all Greek life on what she heard from her cousin, and rushed and pledged us.

There are nationals that haze, as sad as it is to admit it

Dang, that is sad to even hear about!

Damn notify IHQs that really sucks on the hazing and is stoopid!

Be better if got straightended out and progress upward.

[adpiucf]

Unless someone has first hand witnessed the hazing, they have no right to call an IHQ and "report" anything. The ensuing witch hunt is hugely unnecessary and a waste of time and resources. Unless you're at that campus and you have seen something in person that is defined as hazing according to that sorority's definition of hazing, you have no business calling them out on anything. And should they witness something, the first call to action is the campus Greek Life adviser.

[SoCalGirl]

I agree with adpiucf, warn her and let her make a choice. Honestly, I'd probably still encourage her to go through recruitment but tell her to high tail it out of there if there's any hazing activities that she's uncomfortable with.