Greek interacial relationships

[AKA_Monet]

Macallan25,

Sorry, but you did walk into this comment from me...

YOU AIN'T GOT THE DICK-STRENGTH TO EVEN HANDLE A SISTAH!

That's why you say you are not attracted to a Black Woman. But I bet you, if Beyonce was calling you everyday, you'd drop everything you would be doing to be with homegirl. Just like Dave Chappelle was with his Oprah episode on the Chappelle Show...

Dude, you know I am joking... But seriously, we all know you cannot fathom "crossing the street" and go marry someone outside your ethnic cultural heritage, because your marriage is probably already "pre-arranged" anyway... So basically, your choice in a mate(s) is/are extremely limited. Besides you will be required to be hitched no later than 25-27 years old and a kid popped out by the time you are 30.

But, the irony of most of these comments are you can think all you want about relationships and marriage, but you will NEVER know who you marry until you sign that marriage license... Sometimes it works out, most times it doesn't. What does that say about our state of marriages in the United States in general? Then some folks are dying to legally recognized marriages--but that is a whole-different discussion.

For now, we are dealing with young people--and if you are under the age of 35 years old, you are young--'cuz I'm old... Y'all's mentality is just dating...

The question is are you dating to have fun? Or are you dating to court? Depending your answer, either way, you best know who you are and what you are about because you can avoid some problems in the future. I think that race, ethnicity, heritage, religion, and creed are bullshit-assed reasons for dating exclusion. But that's my opinion and I'm entitled to it.

[shinerbock]

I doubt he's that limited, if he's like most of us, he's merely limited to southern pearl-wearing sorority girls from wealthy families. There a lot of them.

[Taualumna]

Originally Posted by shinerbock

I doubt he's that limited, if he's like most of us, he's merely limited to southern pearl-wearing sorority girls from wealthy families. There a lot of them.

Who says pearl-wearing sorority girls from wealthy families have to be white. You need to get out more. Maybe visit Hong Kong. Lots of pearl wearing (though mostly GDI) types there.

[macallan25]

Originally Posted by Taualumna

Who says pearl-wearing sorority girls from wealthy families have to be white. You need to get out more. Maybe visit Hong Kong. Lots of pearl wearing (though mostly GDI) types there.

From what I have seen and experienced (my campus, as well as many others in the South)......most pearl and Polo wearing wealthy sorority girls are white.

[Taualumna]

Originally Posted by macallan25

From what I have seen and experienced (my campus, as well as many others in the South)......most pearl and Polo wearing wealthy sorority girls are white.

Why be limited to the south?

-Taualumna, an Asian pearl/polo/Lilly wearing, private girls' school Old Girl (an old-fashioned Commonwealth prep school term for alumna) Junior Leaguer from Toronto, Ontario...just to give an example of what a pearl wearing girl might be like

[shinerbock]

Yeah, from the South is very important. Basically, its a shorter way to say Christian, well mannered, classy...

[Taualumna]

Originally Posted by shinerbock

Yeah, from the South is very important. Basically, its a shorter way to say Christian, well mannered, classy...

And northerners aren't Christian? Or do you mean that they have to be a specific TYPE of Christian? From my experience, Old Line Protestants (e.g. Episcopalians) usually say what type of Christian they are, while those who say that they're "Christian" are more than likely part of an evangelical (though not evangelical Anglican/Episcopalian (aka "low church")) church.

[macallan25]

Originally Posted by Taualumna

Why be limited to the south?

-Taualumna, an Asian pearl/polo/Lilly wearing, private girls' school Old Girl (an old-fashioned Commonwealth prep school term for alumna) Junior Leaguer from Toronto, Ontario...just to give an example of what a pearl wearing girl might be like

...Because I go to school in the South and travel often to different parts of the South and Southeast. I'm not saying it has to be exclusively limited to the South......i'm just talking about my personal observation.

[shinerbock]

I have no idea what you're talking about. "low church" means nothing to me. However, what I meant was that when dating sorority girls in the south, you generally don't have to consider things like religion. For me, I couldn't seriously date a girl who wasnt a Christian, but I really don't have to worry about things like that. I'm sure there are lots and lots of northern Christian girls, but thankfully down here, they're the rule, not the exception.

[macallan25]

Yep, my marriage is pre arranged. My family also still observes bride prices and dowerys.

Right now i'm dating to have fun. If the oppurtunity arises to date exclusively, then thats great. You are entitled to your own opinion, I never said you weren't.....and I am entitled to date whomever fits my personal preferences. I don't think I ever gave those reasons for whom I chose to date.......I said who I was attracted to and who I would want to date.

[AKA_Monet]

^^^Boys, my last few statements were not just limited you all. Sorry if I was unclear...

[AlphaFrog]

Interracial relationships aren't for everyone. I married a Hispanic, but do I think less of someone who would choose not to, for whatever reason? No. It's their personal preferance. Marriage is hard enough without complicating it with other issues.

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

I think that race, ethnicity, heritage, religion, and creed are bullshit-assed reasons for dating exclusion. But that's my opinion and I'm entitled to it.

I see you, girl...