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Old 09-07-2006, 02:42 PM
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It all comes down to preferences, really. I'm a white woman and I love Asian guys. I married one. We celebrated our 1-year anniversary last weekend. But appearences aside, anyone with a little sense will tell you that it's what's in their heart that truly matters.

that's gonna be some beautiful babies.

just don't call your kids caucASIAN. sounds like cockasian

only mix i can think that is better is blackinese.

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Old 09-07-2006, 03:15 PM
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that's gonna be some beautiful babies.

just don't call your kids caucASIAN. sounds like cockasian

only mix i can think that is better is blackinese.

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That's true sometimes. But some mixed babies I've seen look like they had their heads shoved into blenders and pieced back together. Wow that turns me on.

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Old 09-07-2006, 03:26 PM
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That's true sometimes. But some mixed babies I've seen look like they had their heads shoved into blenders and pieced back together. Wow that turns me on.

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Old 09-07-2006, 04:58 PM
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Everybody else can say what they want to say and not get critcized. But when I have something to say I get criticized. I have the right to say what I want to say, too. If you don't like it, too bad!
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Old 09-07-2006, 06:14 PM
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Everybody else can say what they want to say and not get critcized. But when I have something to say I get criticized. I have the right to say what I want to say, too. If you don't like it, too bad!
This is certainly an attitude that fosters healthy discussion.

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Old 09-07-2006, 06:45 PM
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This is certainly an attitude that fosters healthy discussion.

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I wasn't even talking to you asshole! If you don't like THAT, too bad!
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Old 09-08-2006, 01:06 PM
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I wasn't even talking to you asshole! If you don't like THAT, too bad!
WOW. You are way too emotionally invested in all of this. Why do you care who some white guy finds attractive. It's all about PERSONAL PREFERENCE!

BTW-mac25 WOULD marry Condi Rice (if she was 25 years younger)-just to have GW over for dinner.
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Old 09-09-2006, 03:03 AM
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I wasn't even talking to you asshole! If you don't like THAT, too bad!
LOL.
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Old 09-07-2006, 07:54 PM
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Everybody else can say what they want to say and not get critcized. But when I have something to say I get criticized. I have the right to say what I want to say, too. If you don't like it, too bad!

I don't think people, namely ME....like being called ignorant and stupid because we don't have any intererst in dating a black girl.
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Old 09-08-2006, 12:12 AM
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For me PERSONALLY, I find plenty of men regardless of their race/skin color/ethnicity attractive, would I willing GO OUT AND PURSUE a man of another race other than african-american. Probably not. But, I ALSO wouldn't PURPOSELY GO OUT AND PURSUE a black drug dealer off the street or one who is really short, etc. I have a PREFERENCE for fairly intelligent, usually college-educated upwardly mobile african-americans.

Macallan I UNDERSTAND you COMPLETELY, in your social arena, you grew being surrounded by certain things, experiences, types of people. Which has NOTHING to do with race, only to do with what YOU prefer and what you are surrounded by, just that simple.

At least it should be that simple...
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Old 09-08-2006, 12:54 PM
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I know a white AKA. It just so happened that when and where she was in undergrad there was a white Alpha Phi Alpha. People who didn't know them but knew of the white girl in AKA and the white dude in APhiA would automatically assume that they should be dating and would say so whenever they met one or the other. Something along the lines of "Hey, isn't there a white girl in AKA? You should date!" They were never interested in going down that road but found it funny, as do I.

As for the rest of it...let people have their opinions. Eventually (and it's going to be a looong time before we get there) race won't matter when it comes to matters of the heart, or any matter. But it's also important to note that there are still many communities in which interracial dating is seriously looked down upon. Like some others have expressed, I don't believe a healthy relationship could flourish in such an environment. Also, you have to think of the kids or future kids...if you are living in an environment that is hostile towards interracial dating/marriage, the kids (who should grow up feeling completely accepted, wherever they are) are going to take flak for it too.

As for me, I've dated black men (and I'm white). A lot of the times, the black women in the community would disparage the relationships. I've heard black women that say they want to keep the good black men to themselves
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Old 09-08-2006, 01:06 PM
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Macallan I UNDERSTAND you COMPLETELY, in your social arena, you grew being surrounded by certain things, experiences, types of people. Which has NOTHING to do with race, only to do with what YOU prefer and what you are surrounded by, just that simple.

At least it should be that simple...
It's one thing not to be attracted to someone. It's quite another thing to refuse the possibility of an interracial relationship because of social views on race. There is a difference.
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Old 09-10-2006, 11:44 PM
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Everybody else can say what they want to say and not get critcized. But when I have something to say I get criticized. I have the right to say what I want to say, too. If you don't like it, too bad!

We're all expressing opinions. If you don't like it, too bad and BOOHOO!!!

Overall, this is a funny thread that I'm glad I read after an extremely tiring weekend. Thanks KAY10.
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